There would always be things that reflect differently in your life. Some reflect negatively and some positively. They say what doesn't add value to you will much certainly reduce you, and whatever inspires you will create room for reasoning. It is often hard for people to find a niche in life, something that clicks perfectly without flaws. They are always two fonts but only one is advisable and perfect.
So many people make the mistakes of choosing their definition over an inspiration. Life is based on phases, there's a starting point with excitement, a rolling beginning with slow effects, there's a pick up speed where everything goes wild and there's a clashing back down just like a roller coaster. Whatever inspires to resist and persist, rebuild or create, function and journey along is a perfect factor and there's no room for debating.
You'd always find things that define you but also things that inspire you, go for what inspires you to do more rather than things that only define you to remain stagnant. An inspiration creates a path for new creation, new thoughts of reforming perfections, an idea to actualize and a foundation to build on. Life is not a bed of roses, not a stagnant water neither is it a pot of candies. Things are bound to experience changes and whatever resists this changes remains unfruitful.
It's a step by step procedure right? That means that at some point you'd have to step out of your comfort zone, embrace new things and cultivate new crops. Motivative energies some always be utilized because they don't really last long, they are short term occurrence that need immediate attention and action towards it. Finding the right niche that clicks to reproduce is better than finding a flawful hobby that defines you. Who you really are is always more than you see and so then, the possibility of finding most of your greater specialty all boils down to grabbing on whatever inspires you and from there ye should build a bridge to cross over your limits, step out of the circle and go over your boundaries. Don't limit yourself when it comes to knowledge, embrace more of it as ignorance plays a bigger role in destroying promising offsprings. Go for what inspires you and be creative.