Love Is A Beautiful Thing

Before you propose to a woman, please make sure these 3 things are involved and completed ATTRACTION, AFFECTION, AND CONVICTION.

1. ATTRACTION- Before you think of walkiing up to a sister for marriage, there must be something in her that attract her to you.

There must be something you see in her that you like which probably you have not seen in other ladies.

That is the power of attraction in action, you can never Love someone who never attract you from the first place.

Before Jesus Christ walked up to the Oak tree, the Bible says that the leaves of the tree attracted Jesus from afar.

It was when he came close that he got to know the real identity and character of the tree he was admiring from afar!

2. AFFECTION- After ATTRACTION comes AFFECTION. In affection we talk of love, it is in affection that love comes in. The person you don't love, you can't marry.

Don't forget, real love is not based on material things

3. CONVICTION- Please, before you say "I DO" know what to do, have the total CONVICTION that he or she is meant for you. Listen to me, love might fade away one day, but CONVICTION never does.

What keeps the marriage so strong and lasting is the CONVICTION that you both are meant to be together forever.

In CONVICTION you get to ask God if he or she is meant for you. Don't marry someone you don't have total CONVICTION that he is yours..

When Adam saw Eve, he was not confused, he had the total CONVICTION Eve was meant for him. he said: "This is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh"

If you carefully take these 3 steps before marriage, you won't make mistake at all.