Love yourself a little more ..

PUBLISHED: 12.11.2021
PUBLISHED BY: JUMPER01 
TYPE OF ARTICLE : LIFE POINTERS 
©junperjumps 

The one person that speaks to you the most in the world is yourself so be a little more kind when to talk to yourself. It is important that you self-affirm every now and then because the way you treat yourself goes a long way and has a lot of impact on your general life. I have put together 5 ways in which we can show ourselves compassion and kindness. Without much diversion let’s get into it..

1.Start your day finding and saying positive things about yourself

This point is very important. When you wake up each day find something positive to say about your life and your current state. Say things like “I am working towards my goal and I will achieve it” or “today would be a great day” just say positive things about your life and surroundings and watch how that would help you in the long run. This helps your mind to build a kind of positive energy and in general helps you attract good mantra.

2.Celebrate your victories:- small and big

We rarely do this as humans, it like we just celebrate only the big achievements we forget the smaller ones because we feel like they don’t matter. This shouldn’t be the case all victories matter so as much as possible try to celebrate yourself when you make any kind of progress small or big alike.

3.When you want to say “no” say it clearly

“….wherever you go .. gogogongo…. Do not say yes when you mean to say no .. baba Ibadan”😂

What you see above this paragraph is a popular song sang in basic classes in junior schools. It means never say yes when you mean to say no, Don’t even say maybe .. if you mean to say No. If something doesn’t sit right with you instead of suffering in silence speak up and say No. if you don’t want something state what you want loud and clear. Care for your well-being first it might sound selfish but yeah that is what you should do always.

4.Never apologize for how you feel

A lot of people make this mistake of apologizing about how they truly feel what about you ? Don’t you care about your own feelings?. I think it all boils down to self-esteem and self-love do not be ashamed about your true feelings for somebody or something. Apologizing for your feelings only makes it seem like your feelings is invalid and you are sorry for your nature and how you are which if you ask me is not idea for any human being. If you love someone or something go for it 💯 and never be sorry because at the end of the day you can stand and say I loved hard and I don’t regret it.

Lastly

5.Picture your path and let go of other people’s opinion

The truth is if you keep listening to how people feel about you it is likely that you would miss your way. So what you need to do is to imagine the path you want to take and follow it religiously. So you know people would still talk and give their opinions but look at it this way it is just that “their opinion” it has nothing to do with you and so let them talk just keep being true to yourself and your journey.

Sometimes we just need to show ourselves a little more love and compassion than we usually do. Pat yourself on the back and say “you are doing well”Give yourself some credits because you deserve it honestly. In general love yourself a little more than you have in the past.

well it’s been my pleasure to bring you this read I hope i effect some positive changes in someone’s life today because that is my goal. Till I write again do check out my other works and my amazing sponsors

Thank you and stay safe ❤️

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