How to approach a girl

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I promised the next article so here is it.

So I said there most be a condition to approach a girl even when she's on the am happy mood and that condition is you should know how to start a conversation with her. If you are the type of guy that he's never had a conversation with her before and she sees you walking up to her she'd be confused for for a while before trying to see what fate has brought to her. So when you get to her make sure you are the conversation starter because most girls don't find awkward guys cute.

NOW HOW TO APPROACH A GIRL

1 BE NICE

I know you'd be like 'duh of course i' d be nice' but when I say 'be nice' I mean you should be nice enough to compliment her. Tell she looks beautiful, not because you have to but because you want to. Tell her she looks beautiful sincerely and give her your honest opinion about the way she looks and don't do it smugly or because you're trying to make her blush or swoon cause if you think so then you're wrong because most girls don't like cocky guys. I can vouch for that! So by doing this you are being nice

2 BE THE CONVERSATION STARTER

Like I said not every girl like awkward guys because you'd imagine her confusion when she seee you walking towards her only for you to reach her, stand there and then grin like an idiot which I for one know it would end there. Now let me give a tip or two about how to start a conversation

*If are one of hers friends who relate to her frequently, you can start with one of your usual familiar greeting or anything just make sure you sound cool and chat with her like you always do so she won't get suspicious or feel insecure or maybe you even awkward. Then gradually (after which you've discussed a few random topics) bring the relationship topic up, don't be smug or cocky just be casual so she'd be free enough to open up. Suggest yourself and see her reaction

*If you guys are not on talking basis her locker or stop bye and say hi or give her a hand wave or any other thing you could think off. Don't go all bugging her to date you because of a hi and handwave. Hang out with her. Get to know her better. Be her friend till she is free around and is completely sure you mean no harm. Bring up the relationship topic but don't include yourself yet until you've discussed it a few more times. Then when you feel safe to ask her out, do it. Don't waste 2 shits about it.

3 Tell her things about yourself that are less confidential. Let her get to know you, the real you. Let her know that bad boy under those bad assed jackets or those gawky glasses.

For now these are all I can tell you. Maybe someday, I would write another article relating to this one and in the mean time I need encouragements.

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Thank you and sorry for late post😔😥.

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