Confidence

If a person has the strongest weapon, it is self-confidence. It does not explode like a gun, nor does it explode like a bomb. It does not hurt as much as a knife, and especially not a spear or arrow that pierces the body.

From the heart, it flows to the brain to guide man in what he should do in dealing with the storms of life - trials, so that his knees do not fold immediately if he is discouraged.

History has shown that sometimes, it is not necessary to have a large body to overcome an opponent, like David who was a small man, but because of his confidence in himself who gave him courage he killed Goliath.

There are also famous leaders who are small but respected by the staff and feared by the opponents, such as Alexander the Great, Hitler and Napoleon Bonaparte, to name just a few. Ferdinand Marcos of the Philippines is also not very big, so it is rumored that he used to use "elevator shoes" to reduce the difference in height between him and Imelda. They all had strong self-confidence so they succeeded in their goal… but not just for the good of the majority because they became dictators, except for Alexander the Great.

Mother Theresa, who is now a saint, has always had great self-confidence because she knows God guides and supports her. He was only a little over four feet tall which was further reduced by his squatting due to his back disability. Despite this, he was not afraid to enter the squatter areas.

Many college graduates are valedictorian or have other high honors, but due to lack of self-confidence do not succeed in life. The graduates defeated them even with the mark of "heavy pity", but with strong self-confidence, so far in life.

A Filipino singer from General Santos, who was impressed with her singing skills, tried to find a way to get to know each other. So as long as there is a free videoke in the mall that can be sung, he just kept on singing until he was timed by a blogger, so he was posted on you tube while tweeting… went viral on the internet. Now, international singer!

For those who do not look like a movie or TV, the consolation is to think that many have such a strange look. It should be borne in mind that if there is no ugly, there is no beautiful or handsome because there is no available basis or basis. So, everyone should have a strong fighting spirit, no matter what the face looks like! And always think that God did nothing wrong. The ugliness is that people also develop like being corrupt when they are in government and dazzled by money, so everyone in the family wants to be a government official!… That self-confidence is negative!

It is also difficult to show self-confidence that others think is "present" or "present". So what is really needed to do this is to thicken the face… .or put aside shame first. We must remember that it is a great responsibility to God not to use any of the gifts he has given us, especially if it is for the benefit of others. In other words… let us give ourselves a chance, and let us not be stingy in sharing any talent we have.

Just a note: you should listen to what others have to say and do not dare to sing for example, if it can only throw a tutule and break someone else's eardrum, because that is hurting others, something God does not want to do natin!

Self-confidence means believing in achieving and doing things without having to measure just what you think you can do. Much will change if you trust in your own ability to achieve your dreams.

Sometimes, we already have the talent, ability and even luck but still can't do things. This is because of what is lacking, self-confidence. So the question is, how to have self-confidence.

Be positive. Having self-confidence is a state of mind. What you have in your mind that you can do, that will give you self-confidence. That is why it is so helpful and beneficial to have a positive outlook on things.

Get to know yourself better. We are afraid to do something because we do not know if we can do it. This fear stems from a lack of self-confidence. And the solution here is self-recognition, knowing our strengths and weaknesses.

Find out your likes and dislikes. There are things that no matter how hard you try you will not like and there are things that you just tried first that you already like and became part of your system immediately. It is important that you know this because it can help you lose your fear and build your self-confidence. Find out your talent. This may be part of your fitness.

Be brave and courageous. You need it for trying new things. Do not be scared.

There are many benefits to having self-confidence and you can even achieve your dreams in life. Many people have achieved what they set out to do just because of self-confidence and being positive in everything. So now, you must also have confidence in yourself and in your abilities.