Are you asking yourself the right questions?
Whether we want to admit It or not, we like to lie to ourselves a lot when we look at the mirror, telling us things like "I'm doing great" or "You're going to be someone" and in an hour or two doing the same thing that we shouldn't be doing, procrastinating instead of putting in practice those good habits that are going to do the best for us. Well, It doesn't matter how much you try to avoid It, there's someone who's gonna notice all your improper behaviors and It's going to punish you for It: Your subconscious. When you deceive your own self by not living according to your own standards and indulging in self destructive behaviors, that inner part of you will respond with alarm signals in the form of anxieties and self doubts, the ones you feel when you're binge watching Youtube videos instead of doing your work and that will surely haunt you at nighttime. If you want to avoid all that happening, your first task is to outline what your core values are, all so you can recognize when you're not acting according to them and correct your behavior. Every person has a different set of ideals they abide to, though in this article I will share with you some ways to find them in a set of questions, all so you can add them to your list and adapt yourself to their demands quicker. Let's begin:
Do you want to be working at your dream job, or even better, being an entrepeneur at It? Do you want to meet your significant other? Well, all these interrogants are things you have to respond to in a physical record before you can know what your goals are and get yourself to act in order to get them. If you don't know where to shoot, you won't reach the target of your dreamed life.
One full of vices, bankruptcy and loneliness, maybe just staying in the same state you're in right now will make you go crazy If It is sustained for another 5 years, so better ask yourself in detail about the existence that would represent to you a living hell, this to aim to motivate you the other way around, through the use of fear. By having both something to run to and something to run from, you can guarantee a much more defined ideal to pursuit.
Probably not, and that's why you should break the cycle of laziness and avoidance that you might be living in up to this point. Recognize that only in the pain of the process you can reach the pleasure of victory, so better develop a plan of action in order to reach the values of your higher self, all so you can have a better relationship with your subconscious and have valuable goals.
I hope that this short article could have been of use to you, presenting you with why you should listen to what your subconscious is telling you and giving you the encouragement to ask yourself If you're living the life you really want to, providing you with some questions that might help you in finding that happy ending of yours. Thank you for your support and good luck!