We are all more or less insulted in different cases. In some cases we are insulted for our mistakes, in some cases someone insults us to take revenge. This insult has many effects on our lives. Someone may not take this insult in a normal way and no one can take it in a normal way. Many people lose sleep at night, while others get angry and cause many unwanted incidents. Some even committed suicide out of grief. When someone is slightly insulted, they think more about it, which later leads to illness or high blood pressure. Many began to suffer from human illness again. In fact, there are different types of insults and different people take insults in different ways.
Well, let's look at a sample of different people who receive insults in different ways. Someone asked another man, "Brother, you are getting fat day by day, your belly fat is increasing day by day. Does your wife feed you all the time?" Then the man got angry and replied "Why brother? I am getting fat, my belly fat is increasing, what do you have in that? Do I buy my food with your money? What will you do knowing that my wife feeds me or not?"
Exactly the same question if someone else was asked. He was in pain, he was annoyed, he was angry and he went away in silence. He did not answer.
When the same question was asked to another person, he replied- Yes! Yes! What's the problem with a little fat! Do I look bad? That's why I go out to exercise every morning. My wife lets me eat all day. My wife says that health is the root of all happiness. So his focus is more on my health.
The third person's answer here must be appropriate and tidy. Usually when someone insults you can never have such a good reaction. At the right time we can't give any kind of answer in the right way. We need to know some tips to answer these. And I will share some tips with you.
Firstly- don't get angry:
We usually get angry whenever someone speaks insultingly to us. But we should never be angry. Because getting angry at someone's insults means expressing your weakness. Which gave him a chance to insult you more and make you angry. You will get angry and scold him, but it will not work. He will insult you again, he will be angry again.
Secondly- Don't Look upset
The purpose of insult is to hurt someone. And if you accept it and grieve or cry, it means that you were insulted and the purpose for which you were insulted is right. But if you give her a nice smile instead of insulting her and talk to her with a smile, her purpose will never succeed and she will never insult you again.
Third- Not to do anything undesirable
When someone insults us, we get angry and do something unwanted. For example, if he could not bear the insult, he slapped or punched him, started a fight with him, threw him in the river, tore his shirt, kicked him, threw dirt on him and so on. Instead, we should respond by saying it at that time - just friend! You are absolutely right. This will be the correct answer to the insult.
Fourth- Think
If someone insults you, think about why he is doing this. Why is he insulting you? What is its purpose? If you find the answer to these questions, don't let it get you down. The answer will make him successful according to his expectations. So answer the opposite of the answer to his success. You will see that he will not insult you anymore.
Fifth - Change the topic of speech
If you see someone insulting or trying to insult you, always avoid topics that insult him or her. Then you will not find any new topic to insult him. His purpose will not succeed.
Sixth- Ignore-
The best revenge is to ignore the one who tries to insult you all the time and speaks with difficulty. If you avoid him, he will appreciate your value and will never try to insult you again in the future, but will love you.
I hope you like today's article. If you like it don’t forget to like and comment. Thank you.
