World's Most Dangerous Thing: A fake friend

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People say friends are a blessing in our life but I think people often forget or miss a word here. There can be two words in general. Good and fake. Only good friends are blessings in your life, one one who are always on our side, has our back. But if he is fake, I am gonna say he stabs on your back.

Why I said they are the most dangerous creature? They are like a spy in enemies territory and that's always very fearsome. In Islam, we have a word called 'Munafiq'. Tho who do not believe in Islam and still expresses I am muslim but in the end exposes secret and hurt muslim are called 'Munafiq'. They are very hated in community and we believe great punishment awaits for them.

I personally believed no friends are bad. Because even fake friends give us many life lessons, lik enemies. They flatter us to make mistakes, take wrong discisions. So inthe end, they give us many life lessons like trusting our own gut, be careful while chosing friend, not to get influenced by other and other stuffs. They give us many lessons, in a bitter way.

Remember the story of two boys and bear?When a bear came,one climbed down the tree promptly but other couldn't. Also he didn't help his friend to climb up on the tree. The helpless friend laid on the ground stopping his breath and the bear smelled him and thinking him dead left the sight as bear don't eat dead animals. Then the boy got up and said to his friend, "A friend in need is a friend indeed." A perfect example of fake friends giving us life lesson in a bitter way.

But still nobody wants to be broken. Sometimes they lead you to something thst you can't get out from. You mayforget everything one day. But something they give you becomes your habit. And that thing can easily ruin your life. Yeah I am talking about drugs. In adolescents, this is the biggest harm a fake friend can cause.

But the thing is how to identify the fake friends. Well, to be honest I never had a fake friend. I have avoided those kind of person from my childhood. Yes, some of my friends are very spoiled, the take drugs, smokes cigerattee, weed but one thing that they never offered any and I never asked them to give me for once. But still there are some signs that you might find to identify a fake friend.

  1. Disappers in the time of your need.

  2. Talks behind your back

  3. Flatter you to take the decisions that ends in bitterness.

  4. Diverts you from good deeds.

  5. Offers you drugs.

  6. Sometimes ignores your opinion rather impose theirs on you

  7. Ignores what's important to you

  8. Leaves you when you are in danger.

  9. Betrey you when you trust them with anything. Can be any personal stuffs and imformation.

  10. Most dangerous thing, reveals your weakness and secret to your enemies.

There are many more but these only came to my mind. I just hope nonehad the experience of having fake friend because it's hard to get over the mistake you make. choose friends wisely and always keep an eye when you meet someone. One mistake and you make bear the pain in your whole life. So don't pick arbitarily. Choose wisely here.

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1 year ago

Its simply because you have been most vulnerable to them, making you vome out of your shell. The moment they betray you, it kills like a destructibe bomb. We should really choose our friend carefully quality over quantity always.

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3 years ago

Exactly, we trust them most but when they betrays, it hurts a lot... so prevention is better than cure...we should choose our friends more wisely

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3 years ago

The better way to know and understand are the ones that I encourage against following advices from the respected teachings of our individual cultural and parental background and upbring.

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3 years ago

Lol.. This is true..fake friends are dangerous🤣 i have many of that on fb...

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3 years ago

Fake friends arw everywhere in this world😑😑 if you have one true friend, consider yourself lucky😅

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3 years ago

I only have 3 true friends in my whole life 🤣

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3 years ago

Well, have some but now i live in a different town.. i am alone now😓

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3 years ago

And i am abroad so i don't have real ones here 😅

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3 years ago

Life is unfair sometimes but we have to deal with these🙂🙂

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3 years ago

As always

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