Sometimes its good to be you , you don't need to copy or follow someone . Admiring someone as an idol is good but try to be like them while losing yourself is not good . Sometimes is better to sit alone and talk yourself without any hesitation as it will increase your knowledge and will make you samrt and confident.
Talking yourself is much better than talking to other people in many ways first of all they will never feel your situation more than you because they are not at your position. So no one gonna tell you the best solution of your problems rather than you yourself.
When you are upset or have a disaster problem in your life don't seek for the people just calm down make yourself relax don't get hyperactive relax your mood forget the problem think about the people you love when there is a smile on your face now your ready to think out the solution of that particular problem.
" You are yours true advisor "
But dont you think it's boring if you alone you are not happy you just thinking about your mistakes etc good talking someone is a good deeds