Your spouse is not a spiritual rehabilitation center
Carrying baggage into a marriage is fine , just don't expect the other person to carry it forever
It is not fair or just or that you merried while being spiritually bankrupt , expecting some other poor soul to have to fix you up
Demand goodness from yourself before marriage
Get into a good spiritual place before marriage
Don't expect from other to pull you up
Make the change for Allah
Fix your relationship with Allah and every other relationship will fall into peace
Being in a relationship before marriage is easy ypu meet , share moments then depart
It is absolutely nothing like a good indicator for marriage
Conceptually growing together is an amazing thing, however, in reality, growth often takes place at different times and at different rates , so it can actual split a couple rather than bringing them together
You will never know a person if you don't live together with them , warts an all
Here's one for you to think about :
You have a big wedding, spend thousands ,
Free mixing , music basically washing money down the drain
But you get some spectacular pictures for sure darling
