The famous four

This is the most famous line of brown family " char log daikhaingai to kia bolaingai" , in English we can say " what will the society say"

Yes !! What we do , what we eat , what we wear , what we like , what we want to study and so on we are not supposed to decide, then, who will decide that? Your parents? No that society because with what thought we are brought up??? We are brought up with this line " what other people will think of you " .

Im asking this question to you guys why can't we do things at our own?? Why people talk about others life ?? Why they interfere in others life?? Why they dont mind their own business??