How educated you are reflect who you really are.

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There are many people in this planet who is too arrogant and boastful just because they had or finished a degree in college or something else. Well it's not that bad to boast about the degree you've worked hard but the bad about is it's making your head bigger than it is. Just like the head of an alien lol. But if it can happen in real life maybe there's a lot of big heads already now, scattered everywhere in the world. What if the next evolution of humans is like that, those boasful and arrogant ones will have the bigger heads than anyone else. Then the alien thing just became real lol.

There's a lot of successful person right now in their studies but to be honest they failed in their career as a human beings. Why? Because they are not using or executing the things and lessons they learned in school on how to be a successful human being. They just acquired tons of knowledges but don't know how to apply them in real life. One example for that is the thing called respect. We often hear this one from the old ones and from the educated people kuno but we can't see it from them. It's such a shame that they are even spouting those words in public.

These self proclaimed well educated people need to realize that the knowledges they gained is not enough for them to be called educated. Well the power of the universe will do the work in showing to them how life really works and not just the thing they knew. It may be in the middle of their career or from the start. They are not exempted in this cycle of life so they shoudn't think highly of themselves. All of us will experience the turn of events in our life for us to realize something very important in order for us to be a better human beings.


To be honest friends in this community I've been triggered yesterday that's why I'm discussing this one now. Because some educated people kuno acted so selfishly and arrogantly towards the dead person. It's a dead person and can't talk back anymore but still they're shooting unnecessary words out of their mouths. I'm not a perfect human being but I know what's right and wrong act towards a dead person.

Just yesterday someone died here again but the case is different from the first ones because this is a sensitive one and a lot of us make fun the of cause of this death. A man in his 30's took his life by hanging himself which led to his death. He is a very quiet man and when I see him on the road, he just smiles to me. He had a dark past and that made the people around here to judge him. He left a suicide note in the drawer of his sister. The letter says that he can't contain the sadness anymore and all the badmouthings he hears around him. He also said that by doing that by taking his life will put him to rest and will not hear those words anymore.

It's a peaceful day yesterday when everyone was shocked when we heared what happened. It's just like a strong earthquake hit us causing a too much damage. I saw his dead body apart from the ground and it saddened my heart. It's my first time to witness such incident in my life upclose. They called the police and SOCO if there's a foul play but there's none. Everyone came to see him and even his relatives.

When they came, instead of showing sadness for what happened, they showed their evil self. They started to degrade even further the dignity of the dead person by saying such hurtful words and showing dismay for what happened. The one's who spoke ill to him are a registered nurse, engineer, a teacher and a principal. Just look at the title of each of them. I know that they was in shocked too because the man took himself inside their unfinished house and we had this so called superstition when a person took his life inside of it.

They didn't contain their anger and it's a very unprofessional sight to see them that way. If the person can just speak up I'm sure he will say, where are you when I needed your guidance and first of all I didn't want this to happen but I have to. Maybe those words will open up their skulls and will recalibrate their minds. They didn't show any respect to the dead and until now they didn't show up to see him. It's his first day but his relatives are not with him. It's just so sad.

Those people with a good degree didn't asses first what really happened before spouting such nonsense words towards him. His uncle was very angry to those people and took the opportunity to lecture them. He's just a foreman in a construction but I can say that he is well educated more than those people. Now that they showed their true colors to everybody I'm sure they realized now the mistake in their action. I'm hoping so.

May his soul rest in peace now and I'm praying also that his relatives will forgive him for what he did. Because he didn't want it to happen. It's just that the demons inside his head beat him in his own game. Some people make it fun by saying that his mind is too shallow to think something like that but they didn't know the deep thoughts flowing in his mind before he did that. This case is not something to laugh with.

Author's note

Being too highly of ourselves will only just cause something hate to everyone else around us, especially if we think that by the degree we had it make us above anyone else. We should always remember that it is not and don't let it make your head bigger that it is because it's dangerous.

Always remember that we should act as an educated human and at the same time a well mannered human. We may not be able to attain a degree but if you attain a well mannered self then still you beat those individuals.

That's all for today and I thank you for reading this one again friends.

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The h3ll! People are so judgemental. They didn't know the full story, yet, they are already blabbering nonsense. That's why well-mannered can beat well-educated in a lot of ways.

We were told not to speak ill of the dead since they can't defend their selves anymore. I hope they can have a little respect, at least.

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1 year ago

Goodness! Grabe naman yan bro. Kaya siguro nag hang sarili nya dahil sa rejection sa family. Jusko kung kami yan, kukurutin ko talaga mga tenga nila. Hays.

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1 year ago

Siguro kuys yun na din isang dahilan bakit niya nagawa and it's very unfortunate na humantong sa punto na dina niya nakayanan.. Dapat nilalagyan ng padlock mga bibig nila para naman dina makapaminsala haha..

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1 year ago

I hope his spirit won't see or hear these 'educated' people's reaction to his death. Nakakalungkot lang na despite sa nangyari, di man lang nagpakita ng awa. Kahit man lang sana umattend sa libing pero wala pa din

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1 year ago

Sadly they planted so much hate into their hearts and I'm sure what will they reap in the end is not that good.. Sayang mga kursong nakamit nila ..dinila naiaaply sa reyalidad ng buhay..

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1 year ago

For those who boast about their degrees, life has its way of humbling them because as good as those degrees are, there is a school of life everyone must go through as well.

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1 year ago

I just hope that life will not be too hard for them because regret is at the end ..If life will do it for sure they will be awaken to the truth about what they're doing..

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1 year ago

Life will always awaken them to the reality of things and it's left to them to learn from it and be better.

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1 year ago

Your degree doesn't really the basis of being educated person. If we are educated but not fully equipped with other skills and knowledge, then we are not called as well-educated individuals.

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1 year ago

That's right friend. It's really a bad image if the person doing that is inlined in teaching the core values and other things to be a well educated human.

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1 year ago

What is most important that we can gain also good values. Well-mannered is better than well-knowledge.

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1 year ago

Those knowledges can't help us out anyway when we want to be friends with the humans around us but the attitude we have will do the work..

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1 year ago

I got your point my friend.

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1 year ago

I will be always in the opposite side to them who commits suicide because it is not allowed by our religion to take the life for own troubles. There are always remains one way to choose the life though it is with sadness. I don't support those educated people too, who just becomes arrogant and like that as you said.

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1 year ago

That's ok friend. I understand and I respect that . Me too I don't want them to resort to taking their own life if they hit the end point because someone can give an extension for them to move forward again..It just needs to take it seriously regarding with this cases of depression.

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1 year ago

Yes my friend. Life is like that, there will be sadness and also happiness but we have to keep patience and faith towards our creator. Only our creator would help us if we ask in proper way with faith.

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1 year ago

May ganun tlgang tao, ndi naman sa nagjudge ajonmga neighbor ko sa lucena na magkapatid kapag nag-aaway sila grabe tlga ndi nila naiisip ung reputations nila bilang mga teacher.

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1 year ago

That's the worst of all po kasi they have the propfession to teach good moral values and all to became a better human and yet they're still doing those kind of things.. na nakakasama sa kapwa tao nila..

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1 year ago

Totoo jher hindi talaga basehan ang degree na edukado ang tao. Nasa tao talaga yan. Nasa attitude ng tao. Meron talagang mga degree holder pero yung attitude nila grabe parang hindi nagtapos ng study.

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1 year ago

Pano ba naman kasi po eh pinapalaki nung mga degree nila yung ulo nila which makes them too overconfident na kayang kaya nila mga walang degree sa paligid nila..

It's just sad po na ginawa nila yun sa nagsuicide..

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1 year ago

Oo jher tama. Overconfident sila kaya ganyan yung mga ugali nila. Wala ng respeto sa kapwa tao nila.

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