If you have not read the post here is the link Dont deny him sex!! please read it up so that you will understand the comment.
A marriage is a partnership between two people. It needs to be entered into with love and respect for each other. That love will bring with it desire to engage in sex as part of the marriage. Neither partner should ever expect to demand to have sex with the other, it has to be mutual.
As for the male need and female want. OH you really need to learn the difference between need and want. Sexual desire in both genders is natural. Some experience it at different levels than others but it is desire. The only real diference is societal. Women are conditioned to deny their desires while boys are encouraged to 'sow their oats'.
Pushing a woman to not deny her spouse turns what should be an act of mutual love and caring into a task to be endured. If you love and cherish your spouse you would not do that. Weaponizing sex is not good for a healthy marriage, neither is demanding it as a right.
Kindly share with me your own perspective in the comment section.
Well said to couples