Want to stay well? Want to see yourself as a successful person in life?
Then listen, first get rid of the emotion. Learn to bury the things that stand in the way of good living. Swallow bad memories, some non-existent dreams, some wrong people's promises. Then take a deep breath and start weaving new dreams. Where there will be only the story of your good living. Your success story.
One thing you know, when walking the streets of life, many will walk beside you. But no one will walk for you.
So get to know yourself first, understand. Keep yourself well, learn to live for yourself.
Sounds like a very selfish thing?
Then so.
At the end of the day, one's own shadow is not there; Hoping to find another shadow there, what else but foolishness? Better a poor horse than no horse at all