All I can be is me

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"All I can be is me- whoever that is. ”

Bob Dylan

Have you ever wondered who you are? Have you spent your time analyzing and trying to get to know yourself better?

That’s fine, but sometimes it’s better to live without thinking too much and without trying to define yourself. Life is constantly flowing and it's full of uncertainty. There is no exact answer to the question of who we are. Instead of this question, we can ask ourselves how do we want to live our life. Life is a flow. And we are constantly in that flow, adapting to changes, and fighting challenges, to survive. We should not try to "catch" the frozen frame of ourselves and our lives. We need to indulge in experiences and allow life to be changeable. When we learn to do that, new possibilities can open up for us.

We prosper and progress by meeting uncertainty. While we are trying to know ourselves better, in all its complexity, it is good to pay attention to the process of life that is constantly taking place and lasting. Embrace uncertainty allows us to enjoy the constant flow that is all around us. Some people would rather accept their unhappy life than choose an uncertain life but we are all uncertain as well. We don't know how long we will be here. Only one thing is for sure. You are who you are and you can't be someone else. All you can be is you, whoever you are.

You are the one who will decide how many experiences you will allow yourself. You open up new possibilities. You are crossing new limits. You change because everything changes. You're making progress. You fall. You get up again. During all that time, life flows. Make sure it flows the way you want because what happened yesterday has already passed. What is needed now is to free ourselves from burdensome thoughts that are trying to trap us in a space where a good knowledge of ourselves will make us vulnerable because it will prevent us from adapting to new changes that are coming again and again.

I don't care if I did the right thing anymore. All I can be is me. I don't know who I am, but whoever I am, it doesn't matter, as long as my intentions towards myself and the people around me are good.

Thank you very much for reading.

The article and the lead image are original and mine.

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Be proud to ourselves coz no one does genuinely. We should be true to ourselves.

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2 years ago

I agree with you, dear Kleah. 😊 One should accept oneself but oneself in the uncertainty and changes that life brings.

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2 years ago

Love this thought, we should embrace who we are. Because no matter what mask you showed to the world, you are you and you know it in yourself.

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2 years ago

Yes, we are always us, even if we don't like it sometimes. Whoever we are, we must strive to live well and accept changes.

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2 years ago

In all we do, it's important we stay true to ourselves

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2 years ago

I agree. But even if we fail ourselves sometime, we need to move on and accept all the changes and challenges.

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2 years ago

You are always you. That made you special and confident. Don’t think about the world. You are the game changer.

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2 years ago

I love this - game changer. 😊 You found the right words.

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2 years ago

there is no other people who can understand you if you don't understand yourself that is why we should know and able to love ourself first.

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2 years ago

Yes, we should love ourselves and strive to make our lives beautiful, but to accept uncertainty as an integral part of it.

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2 years ago

Many problems come when we can't accept ourselves, and we need to know us better... and be what we can be, us.

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2 years ago

Yes. We are who we are and we should not ask ourselves too much who we are but to try to live the way we like and accept a life that is changeable and uncertain.

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