Sources of successful life
Who doesn’t want to be successful in life? Every person wants success in their life.
So know how you can get success in your life. Sources of successful life are:
Life: When you were born, you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life so that when you die, the world cries and you rejoice. To find long-term happiness, you need to retrain your brain from a negative mindset to a positive mindset. Feeling some positive emotions every day has a big effect on our happiness and well-being.
Don’t give up: There is no use of returning from the middle path because on returning you will have to travel as much distance as you can reach the goal. Sometimes, circumstances in our life make us feel that despite all the hard work we’re doing, we’ve got nothing to show for it. There are days when all we ever encounter are roadblocks, preventing us from moving forward. The moments when our dreams seems so out of reach make us wonder if it’s truly worth pursuing or fighting for. However, the challenges we face along the way are not meant to make us quit and just spend the rest of our days on the sidelines, being bitter about life. The challenges strewn on our paths are meant to test our mettle, to see if we’re made of stronger stuff. It is normal to feel anxious when we’re dealing with life or when we are pursuing our goals. Nevertheless, that moment when you feel the greatest anxiety that it’s tempting to just quit is the perfect occasion to keep going. Some people who quit going after their goals have feelings of deep regret for doing so — for it is only after they’ve thrown in the towel that they realize that success was actually so close, only if they’ve persevered. There are a lot of important learning opportunities when you don’t give up.
Lose and win: Success introduces us to the world and failure introduces us to the world. We learn when we lose. We learn from failures and mistakes. Learn from experiences and move with positive attitude for our next win on previous losses. And this how success journey begins. No one wins all the time. Michael Jordan suffered defeats for six seasons; he didn’t win a championship until his seventh season. Everyone can win and everyone can lose. We grow through our experiences and achieve success.
Difficulties: As long as you blame others for your problems and difficulties, then you cannot erase your problems and difficulties. It’s always easy to blame others. You can spend your entire life blaming the world, but your success and failures are entirely your own responsibility. Don’t play the victim to circumstances you created. To “overcome difficulties” you will have to adopt or develop a certain mindset. That mindset will enable you to find solutions that will help you tackle those problems which you feel as “difficulties”.
The most important part of this mindset is confidence. Confidence manifests itself in sentences like “I can do this!” or “I can tackle any challenge.” or “This is not a difficulty, it’s an opportunity. The tackling of this challenge will make me stronger/smarter/wiser/more resilient/more experienced…”
Seeing difficulties as opportunities to hone your capabilities is another part of this mindset. Problems are not seen as something bad, hampering or a danger. Problems are seen as clues and hints that there is something to learn here, that there is an opportunity to become more knowledgeable, wiser and more experienced.Self-confidence: If you want something from the heart, then it takes the whole word to join you. It is that voice which originates from your inside and gives you a lift to accomplish something which fears you. Self-confidence is a combination of a state of mind and a strong feeling of self-belief which is commonly used when one needs self-assurance especially in one’s personal judgment, power, ability etc. It is the pre-requisite to success and happiness.
Impossible: Nothing is impossible in this world; we can do everything we can think of. Everything starts in the mind. When you think of something as possible, and believe it is so, you see opportunities you never saw before. Believing in possibilities keeps your mind open and boosts your motivation. Read the success stories of people who did not believe in the impossible, and therefore, achieved the impossible. Th word ‘impossible builds barriers that you do not need, which limit your life and prevent you from achieving goals. Start making the word ‘possible’ your ally and partner to success.
Mistakes: If you do not accept your mistakes on time, then you make another mistake. You can learn from your mistakes only when you accept your mistakes. We can gain so much knowledge from our mistakes, and all it takes is the willingness to learn from them. We get to know what works and what doesn’t from each error we come across. Without mistakes, we lose countless opportunities to gain valuable knowledge and learn lessons. When what we are attempting is not working, we look for a new solution, which enables us to think outside the box. Without mistakes, we lose chances of experiencing the creative side of ourselves.
Power: All the powers in the universe are already ours. It is we who have put our hands before our eyes and cry that it is dark. We are constantly being tested by our surroundings. The daily changes in our work, relationships, and thoughts serve to strengthen our mind, body, and soul. The world is both your training gym and proving ground. Wake up each morning ready to take on the world because you’re stepping into the biggest gymnasium of them all.
Hard work: We can write our own destiny on the strength of our confidence and hard work. And if we don’t know how to write our destiny, then circumstances will write our fate. It the amount of effort expended to reach a goal determines what is achieved. Hard work pays off in long term but the condition is that a person should never gets depressed with initial outcomes and keep on doing the hard work with smile on his/her face. Smart work can pay off for time being until person is getting favorable conditions but in Long term Hard work is what matter.
Greatness: Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall. Greatness demands skill set and a unique psychological pattern which set you apart from the Majority. Greatness is a life long journey of consistent acts. Greatness doesn’t mean that you’re above others in an arrogant way rather it means that you’re Stronger and Humble enough to lift others up. Achieving Greatness is a matter of Self-growth without personal expectations.
Time: You cannot say that you do not have time because you also get as much time in the day as the great and successful people get. First of all, everyone must understand that Time waits for no one. This is an age-old belief that still holds true. No one can stop the clock or slow it down. Most noteworthy, Time will keep going whether one likes it or not. Because Time doesn’t wait for everyone, it becomes a precious commodity. Time cannot be reversed. This means we must spend each moment wisely. One cannot go back to a moment of wrongdoing to correct a mistake. What is gone is gone. Above all, nobody can turn back the clock to gain more Time. Therefore, individuals must make every moment count. This is because that moment is never going to repeat itself.
Thought: All birds seek shelter during rain. But the staves fly above the clouds and avoid the rain. Problems are common, but your perspective creates a difference in it. Positive thinking, or an optimistic attitude, is the practice of focusing on the good in any given situation. Optimists seem to have different ways of dealing with the world that set them apart from the average.
Dreams: Dreams are not what we see in our sleep, dreams are what do not let us sleep. There is no greater time than now to begin to live your dreams. You can make your dreams come true if you put in the effort and make a reasonable plan. All you have to do is know what you want and take baby steps to be on your path to success. There will be some bumps along the way, but if you learn from your setbacks, you’ll be even more likely to get what you’ve always wanted in the end. You need to be specific about your dream so you can be on your way to making it happen. You will need to turn your dream into a burning desire in your heart. A strong will to achieve your dreams boosts self-confidence.
Anxiety: If you get worried due to those things and circumstances which are not under your control, then the result is a waste of time. Negative thoughts can take root in your mind and distort the severity of the situation. One way is to challenge your fears, ask if they’re true, and see where you can take back control. Do exercises and improve your health and immune system.
Trust: There is the power in faith that can bring light to a desolate world. Faith can turn stone into god. At the foundation of all relationships is trust. Trust is built through actions not words. As a Manager or Leader in an organization you can’t just say you “trust” a particular employee or team, you need to show that you do through the actions you take on a daily basis. In a relationship trust is more important than love. It will enhance your love. Trust starts with truth and ends with truth.
Success: Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it. Success gives you happiness and a great quality of life. Your success and happiness lies in you. Resolve to keep happy, and your joy and you shall form an invincible host against difficulties.
Delight: It’s not something already manufactured, it comes from your actions. The only person who can make you happy is you. You can’t rely on other people to make you happy. You have to work out what makes you happy? If you want to be happy, do something about it today, write down the things that make you happy and do them more and write down the things and people that make you unhappy and get rid of them.
Celebrate little victories: Life is full of ups and downs, but in between we have a lot of little victories that go unnoticed. Take a moment to celebrate these small wins. Celebrating small wins is an important way to track incremental achievements and work toward much larger goals. Plus, it makes you feel good more often. There is science behind this thought process too. When you accomplish something, it activates the reward center of our brains, allowing us to feel a sense of pride. Did you check off all the things on your to-do list that you’ve been procrastinating on? Yay! Did you finally clear out a thousand emails that have been filling up your inbox? Woohoo! Take pleasure in these little achievements. They add up!
Live in the moment: Our thoughts and feelings often revolve around the past or the future. Reality is what you are experiencing in this very moment; what you are going through right now. Sometimes we want to escape that reality. But when we stay in the present, we are fully engaged in our lives. Endeavor to live in the moment, and you’ll begin to have a deeper appreciation for your life.
Give back: Be generous with your time and your money. Give to others in need. Give to those you love and care for. Those who give back have a sense of selflessness and humanitarianism. Those who are generous in spending money on others tend to have good health, perhaps because giving has a feel-good effect that lowers blood pressure and stress.
"Success and happiness are the two ingredients of our life"
