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Life is not perfect **#Blog 304** Yesterday I came across with my Facebook memories and I've seen the photos of my eldest son. That time I've been working abroad for an domestic helper at Singapore. Mareng Jeanete is the one send this photos because she had a niece in that school and her eldest sister is the one sending it to her. Thanks to them!
His only 5 years old when I've decided to leave him for a while. That's my hardest decision I've make in my life that time. I really don't have choice. We know that when it comes to family we really need to sacrifice everything. It's our responsibility to prepare their future. My ex husband that time don't have an stable job and just depending only to his parents. I don't want to be in that position always. Although my in-laws is really a good people and they always support us financially. But things must be changed, I'm not a type of a person that can be sustain forever with the inlaws. Even on my parents I don't want also. I felt shy because when I'm having a family the words obligations really remarks on my mind. That we are the one finding a way to sustain our needs especially to our kids.
However I never expect that we can struggled the biggest problem in our family. Being away with them is not easy. Homesick really attacks in every ofw (Overseas Filipino Worker). But the only weapon I have is to be strong and I'll put the 100% trust to our almighty God. Due to temptation we've been separated to my ex husband. Sometimes making decisions is really hard to decide especially when it comes to our own family. I've been build my family with full of love and respect but all is gone in just a blink. For 7 years of being married with him that time, all my dreams is falling apart. We've been married 2005 and it's 17 years already if we don't be separated. My eldest son now is 17 years old. Life is not perfect even we build a good foundation to our family but it really depends to a person if you want to be tempted. We're just human being having a mistakes sometimes but we only need is to control. We must think first our family. They are our inspiration. We woke up everyday for them, right? We need to focused with our goals in life. I've learned so much with all my trials in life. Thanks God he never let me into a position to be depressed but maybe it frustrates me a lot for having a broken family. **Thanks to all my sponsors!** **September 28,2022** **6:39 am** **Wednesday** **Philippines** **The fighter mom,** **©Jeansapphire39**
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>*even we build a good foundation to our family but it really depends to a person if you want to be tempted* Tinuod jud sis, bisan gihatag ang tanan para maging buo ug maayo ang family nato pero kung magpatempt ang pikas half, naay chance na maguba jud ang panag uban not unless kung magpakabuta ta sa iyang gibuhat ug dawaton gihapon for the sake nga buo ang family..
Tinuod mn sd na sis naa ra jud na sa tawo kung mghuna huna sya sa iya pamilya ba pero nagpatintal mn jud na hala ipanghtag na lng para mgmalipayun sya. Lisod pugngan ba ky usbon bya join na ug imo lng jpon dawatun. Tn awa ron iya life sobra pa sa miserable. Way nag atiman nya mateguwang na lng sya.
Lagi sis. Kung naghunahuna sya sa iyang pamilya, Dili sya magpatempt instead mag-focus sya sa iyang anak no? Hehehe, ipanghatag kay para wala nay sakit sa ulo. Aw, Mao man na Iya gipili gud. Kung nagmahay sya sa iyang gibuhat, late na.
Kapoy nko ug sabot sis nya gesagad na jud tanan nko paxenxa na hala pgtagbaw ky di rba ta pirmi batan on. Sakit sa ulo ra jud sya sauna sko.
Tinuod sis, di forever Batan on, na nagmahay ra jud na sya karon. Sakto ra sad imong gibuhian kay para wala nay sakit sa ulo.
To work abroad sis, is really a great sacrifice that we can do as a mother, I've seen a lot of broken family, while their wife is away from home,its saddening the kids were the most affected of all. Stay strong sis, Para sa PAmilya.
True sis! Sacrificing is the key talaga. No choice eh ksi di nmn tayo mayaman para tumambay lng sa bahay.
I agree life is not perfect. Having a family involves many sacrifices. Sometimes we have to accept struggles to keep it together. I'm not saying all are acceptable though.
Without trials we cannot be stronger enough because of that. For now I just want to be happy along with my kids.
That is correct. Your a great mom may all your days ahead with your children be happy:)
Hats off to you, sis! Di na ka nagpopost sa kabila?
Thank you sis! San na kabila? Hive or blurt?
Arang ka lisod sa part sa mga parents ng mularga ug gawas sis na mabilin ang anak. Arang ka gamay pa ang imung eldest dira sa picture sis.
Hastang lisuda sis nya 5 years old sya pgbiya nko nya 7 sya pag uli nko. Wa tay mahimo ky pobre rmn ta ani sis.
Lagi sis di nako ma imagine inyong na feel ato na time. Lisod kaayo. Now ulitawo na sis. Kadali ras panahon.
Yeah. Although I haven't been abroad, but I know the feeling of homesick. Talagang tibay lang ng loob at lakas ng pangangatawan para maitawid kung mag aabroad ka ih.
Di biro mg abroad denn ksi ikaw lng sa sarili mo ang tutulong don kaya di pwede ang weak don. Talo ka agad nyan.
Hugs sis!🤗🤗🤗 Laban Inahan. Tuod, daghang ko'y nadunggan sa radio ing.ane nga mga klase sa storya bitaw. Lisod ning layu ta sa pamilya. Tas ang maguba ang gibuo nga pamilya bitaw tungod sa temptasyon. "Fate is sometimes cruel" talaga.
Hi sis! Salamat kaau... Legendary na jud sis mao bitaw dghn broken family sa mga ofw ky mailugan mn lagi twn. Mao salute ko sa mga loyal pa tpos faithful pa jud.
Mao lagi. Its all about trust and faith man kaha sis? Hehe. Lisod ang sitwasyon ng lagyu mo sa usa'g usa kay ang mga temptasyon naa ra sa palibot.
We do what we can for the family. We should not judge others for no one is perfect.
Indeed! They don't know the whole story and keep quite na lng lol.
Korek!
Nagbunga sissy ang mga sakripisyo mo noon. Kahit nasaktan ka, lumaban ka at ngayon masaya ka na. Hindi tayo laging matatag pero kinakaya para sa pamilya
Tama ka dyan sissy! Just keep fighting lng talaga sa laban ng buhay. Pakatatag lagi.
Bitaw sis. When everything seems wrong and tempting, we should always think about our families and consider the consequences.
Kaya salute ako sa pamilyang buo kasi no one is perfect nmn tlga sis kasi ang temptation di tlga nwwla yan.
Atleast ngaun happy ka na sis with your new found love
Uo sis pero may prblma pa din sa ugali ni partner.
Yaan mo na sis malayo naman
Hala sayo d I kah naminyo sis noh? 2004 ko ning graduate sah high school, nia ikw Kai nagmenyo kah 2005? Sayang gyud noh? Dli gyud kamu ato sis.
Uo sis hehehe. Late na gni ko sis naminyu kesa sko mga batch sa hehehe. Undang mn kog college ato ky 3 ka egsoon nko nagcollege mn sa Davao. Di mkya ang gastos ato nga time.
Ahhh Maovah? Pero okay rana sis wui, ang importante happy naka Karon together sah 2kids nimu, nga mga gwapo ravah purya buyag,ahehe.
Pero God is good kaayu dae kay gitagaan man pud ka niya og laing family nga mas ni support nimo.
Ou dae pero kuyaw sd hehehe. Long story na sd na.
Kaya sobrang hirap din po talaga maging OFW, di lang homesick mararanasan ate. Marami din pong mami-miss na mga events and important occasions like birthdays and graduation
Kaya malaking sakripisyo talaga langga pg nag ofw ka kasi andyan na lahat. Ang iba nga di nkayanan ang depression. Yes mga special occasions wla sila kaya tiis tiis muna.