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Real Life Story (How I Overcome Challenges That Life Throws At Me)

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Challenges became a part of our daily lives already. They are given and can be used to our advantage. As we continue along our journey to find the real us and to reach our goals in life, obstacles and challenges will always be on our way. We either face and overcome it, or run away like coward and accept defeat. However, will you ever let it happen? Will you let yourself to be called looser? Or will you stand from fall and continue your course of life and find the right path that will lead to a better you and to a better life.

I grew up facing different challenges everyday, taking responsibilities and carrying the burden that life throws at me. As the eldest daughter in the family, I became the second mother of my little siblings, their baby-sitter, their teacher, their playmate and their provider.

I became responsible at young age, knowing what things to do without waiting for my parents orders. Filtering good from bad, understanding every single situation without further knowledge and learning lessons from the mistakes I've done. And at young age, I encountered lots of challenges.

Having a soldier father is something that no kids will ever dream of. Soldiers are always destined to distant places which is the reason why they seldom visited their families. At the age of 9, I experienced babysitting my little siblings without my mother's help as she visited my father in northern part of our country where my father was assigned. That time, there was free wedding for soldiers, so my mother went to my father's place and it took her more than a month before going back home. I learned how to cook for my little siblings, wash their clothes and at the same time do my school home works. It was so tiring for me and I always ask myself "why do I need to experience this at early age?" I wanted to play with other kids but I can't. However, despite of those challenges, I never lose hope and waited for my mother to come back home.

My childhood life isn't as happy as other kids. I envy those who can play outside anytime. I always dreamed of having free life, no responsibilities, no burdens, and free to play anytime until my skin got burn under the sun, and my clothes got soak with sweat. I always wished to have a better life so we can hire a babysitter for my little siblings. I always wished my parents to stop from adding more child. The more we have in the family, the bigger my responsibility, the more I won't have freedom to play, freedom to enjoy my childhood life.

In my primary school I got bullied by other rich kids. There are times that I don't want to attend our class, as they will only bully me once they saw me. But despite of having bullies, I have friends too. Friends who defended me from my bullies, friends who played with me, friends who taught me that no matter how hard life is, we can always have time to play and to be happy. Although I've been bullied, I never give up. So instead of crying, I learned how to laugh at bad words my bullies thrown at me and I chose to continue schooling because I know, my friends are their to protect me.

Fast forward, my high school life run so smoothly, no more bullies, more friends, more enjoyment. I considered my high school life as one of the happiest moments of my life. Despite of having hard life at home, at least I have happy life at school. So I never give up, rather I continue to dream bigger and to wish for more happy things.

My college life was toughest of them all. School's far distance from home so I need to wake early in the morning in order not to be caught by traffic and just to be on time in class. My tuition fee and school's miscellaneous fees were my biggest problem. I always get stress by the though that I need money for school, but at the same time, my youngest sibling needs to feed with milk and my family needs it more. Instead of worrying about my difficult subjects, I worried more for my family. "What should I do? Should I stop or continue?" That were the questions in my mind. But I want to graduate, I want to have a good job in the future, I want to give my family a better life, and so I chose to continue and I thought "everything has a reason, I shouldn't give up".

As soon as I graduated, I immediately looked for a job. Luckily, I got one four months after being toxic at home from a long break of being unemployed degree holder.

Every new day always have new challenges, new obstacles, new problems, new experiences, meet new people and take new responsibilities. My main reason of finding a job was to support my family. I remember the times that I visited home every weekend with baby items such as milk, diaper, and other foods. People were asking me if I have a baby already, it was kind've embarrasing carrying baby products and hearing insulting words from those people. But I never mind their stupid judgement, as it was for my youngest brother.

Life goes on. I became used to taking responsibilities, devoting my time for my work and for my family to the point that I forgot to care for myself. A common situation among girls came into my life. I've experience the most painful feeling from being betrayed by my loved one, that thing they called "heartbreak". I was young back then and so innocent of some things this world. I doesn't know yet how to handle such situation and the only thing I knew was to cry. I always asked myself "how to move on from this breakup?" Everyday became a painful day, tears keeps falling on my face, no appetite to swallow my food, and seems like there were no colors in this world.

But God was so good, and heard my prayers. The painful heartbreak was actually a blessing in disguise. Through that, I've meet new friends who comforted me during those painful days. And those friends became my real friends up to this life. It taught me to take responsibility from my actions. It forces me to take a look in the mirror and address some truths about myself that might be hard to swallow. And because of that, I became a stronger person.

Despite of being a strong person, my pessimistic side always pop out at anytime. I always worried if my hardwork was enough to support my family. As my little siblings grow, my responsibilities grew as well. And that leads me to find a better job which I thought will give me a higher income to support my family. Applying abroad was my last option.

The process was challenging. With all the money I've earned from my previous job, I surge the way to the capital city of my country to apply a job for abroad. It was my first time in that city. But I wasn't ignorant anymore not to know everything happening in this world. With my strong mind and determination, I faced the crowd and continue to reach my goal. However, having optimistic mind and strong body wasn't enough, there were times that I want to give up. Maybe because I was already tired taking responsibilities and I wanted to rest.

The negativity sometimes overflowed in my mind. And those negative thoughts were the reasons why I attempted to commit suicide. In my stay in Manila, It was so sad and challenging - away from my family, away from my friends and all alone waiting for unsure opportunity. It took me long to wait for a job offer. I almost gave up and I thought I wouldn't have that chance anymore. My money was running out, I doesn't want to disappoint my family and so I thought to leave this world. My emotional distress took over my mind but it seems like God was there to fill it up and stopped me from that absurd attempt. Then I remember my family, their future without me, the thoughts of not seeing my little siblings finish their studies, those thoughts gave me full hope and courage to continue my life.

And through that, I forced myself to let go of those worries, to let go of those emotions, to push the obstacles that will come on my way and to stay optimistic no matter what challenges life throws at me.

BOTTOMLINE:

Challenges are common in life. As we go throughΒ challenges, we become stronger and stronger.Β ChallengesΒ are an excellent opportunity for growth. They test our resolve and commitment to our goals. And when we overcome them, we develop emotional and mental strength.

On the process of facing challenges, we develop resilience. We were able to adapt well and bounce back quickly in times of stress. Developing resilience can help us tailor ourself and recover after changes, challenges, negativity, disappointments, and failures.

"Despite of so many challenges that life throws at me, I never give up, I never lose hope. I laughed at my bullies and failures. I chose to continue facing the challenges. I chose to become stronger and optimistic in order to achieve my goals in life and to find the better me.

And when I was about to fall down, I prayed to God and waited for his answers. I embraced my life, invigorated myself to continue my journey and get ready to face the upcoming challenges that life will throw at me.

P.S.

My parents didn't forced me to take the responsibilities. But as my two eldest brother married at young age, I chose to help them support my 10 little siblings. We're many right? πŸ˜‚

My father have money, but I never relied on it. I chose to work and save for our future.

I chose to suffer and take the responsibilities and as a responsible daughter, I know, that is the best thing that I should do.

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I'm busy today so sorry for the wrong grammars. I'll proofread it later. Have a nice day.

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1 month ago

I can relate to this so much. Though i only have 3 younger siblings but i did grow up almost without parents around. Just a few visits every now and then

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1 month ago

Kudos to us. But because of this, we became responsible at young age and makes us stronger now.

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1 month ago

Definitely. And i at least get to enjoy my life now. I can apint and collect the stuff i wanted to when i was a kid

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1 month ago

Though i have my own money now, but still i don't want to just spend it buying things that i want I save it more for my needs and for my little siblings studies

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1 month ago

There's no shame in spending a bit for yourself every now and then despite the bills and payments, that's what makes working more bearable, the simple pleasures. The rewarding feeling from helping your family will definitely take too long so those small stuff for yourself is good too

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1 month ago

Yeah sometimes I'm giving reward to myself too.. but i have some problems lately, my eyes are hurting so badly.. i think i need to change my glasses again..tsl

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1 month ago

Maybe you should? Or maybe it's a sign of high blood? But eye check up first xD just to be sure

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1 month ago

I think it's because of too much using phone because of readcash.. or because of this flickering screen of my phone .i want to change this already..

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1 month ago

Hopefully you can get your eyes checked soon. Maybe go with the blue lens one even if it's a bit pricier than the regular lenses

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1 month ago

It's hard to find a good eye center here.. many doctors doesn't speak English

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4 weeks ago

Very unique

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1 month ago

Great article

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1 month ago

it was a good article

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1 month ago

So great written bro....

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1 month ago

Woww...the end made me laugh..ten younger siblings????😁😁. I'll give it to you, you really tried. Most of us should come and take lessons from you then.😁

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1 month ago

You don't believe that? πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ it's really unbelievable, but that is true. Lol..

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1 month ago

Wow. Such a very tough childhood experiences. But it makes you stronger woman and independent. :)

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1 month ago

Indeed.. though til now, life is still challenging. Hayst. Ganun tlga

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1 month ago

kaya habang tumatanda mas madaming responsibilities and challenges na minsan gugustuhin mo na lang ulit maging bata.haha. may hugot

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1 month ago

True... bata na free to play and do everything without thinking of the obligations and responsibilities

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1 month ago

definitely. Getting older is not easy.haha

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4 weeks ago

Interestingly, when we think about it, it is also a blessing in disguise that we have all these experiences to shape us to be the person we are today. Everyone has a story and we can only be thankful that we turned out okay :) It is good to read your story and thank you for sharing. Life is tough and continues to be tough most times. I think as long as we have faith and stay strong, find strength in our believes, take each day as it comes, we should do okay :)

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1 month ago

Just sorry for the wrong grammars. πŸ˜‚ actually until now i haven't proofread it yet. I'm really busy at work. Btw thank you for reading it 😘

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1 month ago

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🎡I'm also left at home a lot of times to look after my young siblings. And aside from my siblings I have 4 cousins who are living with us too. At the age of 10, I was already left looking after and β™Ώmanaging the entire household because my parents are always away doing their business. It's really hard to be the first borβ™Ώn, you have to be more mature than your age

βœ…βœ…βœ…It is good to read your story and thank you for sharing. Life is tough and continues to be tough most times. I think as long as we have faith and stay strong, find strength in our believes, take each day as it ,,,

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1 month ago

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1 month ago

Ok sorry for that

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1 month ago

Stop copying other comments, the system might gonna ban you

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1 month ago

OK thanks

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1 month ago

I am the only daughter in my family. My family supports me a lot. Now I am going through a very difficult time. We have a lot of economic problems for the pandemic Situation now I want to do something for my family

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1 month ago

Maybe you need to find for a job ? Or write good articles here ..you'll earn everyday and can help them.. just stick to the rules

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1 month ago

Oh, we have the same childhood. I even have a poem about it, which is "Stolen Childhood", I felt like it was stolen because I didn't enjoy and experience how to be a child because I have to be responsible for my little siblings. It's not easy to be the eldest daughter we are next in line to be a mother when our mother is not around, we didn't enjoy just like other kids who will play around because of the responsibilities we have to fulfill. Good thing we are strong and optimistic, we able to accept and overcome it. Happy for us! ❀

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1 month ago

Really? It makes us stronger now. I'll gonna visit that article of yours. πŸ˜‰

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1 month ago

It was published long ago hahaha you will find it hard to find, I will find it for you haha

Edited: Here is the link of my poem. https://read.cash/@Eybyoung/stolen-childhood-0b1222ab

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1 month ago

Ill check it

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1 month ago

Motivation can change our life. Motivational speech will be work in our habits life. Then you can change in your life. Modulation is very important for everyone. Yet, it will be worked for everyone in your life. So he or she can be successful in your life.

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1 month ago

😍😍😍😍nice

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1 month ago

I can relate with this. I am also the first born and being the first born made me carry a lot of responsibilities in the family. At a young age, I'm also left at home a lot of times to look after my young siblings. And aside from my siblings I have 4 cousins who are living with us too. At the age of 10, I was already left looking after and managing the entire household because my parents are always away doing their business. It's really hard to be the first born, you have to be more mature than your age. But it's a good thing because we learn how to be independent and empowered πŸ’ͺ Kudos to us for being a strong, independent women! πŸ‘

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1 month ago

Many can relate to this. It's really hard to take the responsibilities at young age. It's takin away the supposed to be happy childhood life.

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1 month ago

My future life is very good day

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1 month ago

Oh, we have the same childhood. I even have a poem about it, which is "Stolen Childhood", I felt like it was stolen because I didn't enjoy and experience how to be a child because I have to be responsible for my little siblings.

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1 month ago

@EyByoung check this

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1 month ago

afffffff! they are still alive hahahaha

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1 month ago

True.. my isa mga kinopya comment ni esciisc

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1 month ago

nice post..

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