A lot of times the ability not to speak or ask question put most of us in a state of guess work, our minds is set to believe some bias and sentimental thing which however may all seems wrong and untrue.
I would share a story about my neighbors who kill his distance brother-in-law because of lack of patience and assumption.
My neighbor, been a military man spend few time at home, hence he is always far away from home in one battle or the other in other to defend the country. One of his leave holiday he was at home, and he went out with his friends to have some nice time. Coming back home he saw his wife hugging a male passionately, he thought it was a concubine of the wife unknown to him that's the man was his wife's brother . With bloodshoting eyes, he race to slap the man and shot him without thinking twice .
He was court martial and dismissed from the military for the act(he's is also being charged for murder )but his cracy assumption lead to the untimly death of his brother-in-law.
This incident has really taught me to stop cracy assumption and start asking questions. Asking questions would bring about constructive arguments or may be a good answer to some certain question impressively the acts of asking questions seems vindicating if the military man had waited for response from his wife he might have gotten to the root of the matter!.
There are common times we just don't think about something we just act ignorantly, latter when we find out the true we fill sorry, but the deed has been done .the damage might not be erased.
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