Long-term Relationship
A long term relationship can change us either for the better or worse. Love has the power to change us from who we are. Every long term couple will undergo different phases in their relationship. Every couple dreamed to make their relationship last. Remember that no matter what, you and your partner are on the same boat and on the same team, you can talked everything or anything together. Thing you learn unexpectedly in a long term relationship ****Questioning your Relationship is normal**** Being in a long term relationship, occasionally questioning if your partner is "The One" is normal. In life, want we wanted is happiness together with the person we loved. We want the assurance that the decision we made is right. Everyone has doubts from time to time, whether its for the future or relationship. As long as the doubt aren't lingering and constant, they are normal and even healthy. ****You will Experience Temptation**** Some people say that "You can like more than but you can only love one." Being in a relationship doesn't prevent us from liking or from being attracted to someone sometimes, especially nowadays. Social medias can be a bridge to interact with the people from our past and present who might not have the best intentions. However, being aware of the temptations allows us to keep our guard up and fight it. ****Long term relationship can feel boring**** Since you know each other for a long time, you might feel bored especially when to spend of the time together. However, if you truly love each other you will work to find the joy and happiness in everyday. ****Forgiveness is Crucial**** I remember @Yen, this is for you. If your partner did something that hurt you, you should communicate about it and work out for a solution together. Don't give a cold shoulder. Arguments will happen, you should fully dealt with it and forgot it and never brought it up again. This allows a couple to move forward. ****Arguments are Normal**** Arguing is inevitable in every long term relationship. It doesn't matter whether it's a tiny squabble over little things or a serious disagreement, what really matter is how you communicate during and after the argument to solve it. How you work tjings out after a fight is more important than what you are both arguing. As long as your partner can communicate well, appreciate each other well and can grow together, there's no way your long term relationship has to end. **Thanks for reading!**
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Are you in a relationship by now? A long-term relationship will face so much complexity in the future especially about meddling family matters.. it's pretty complicated that is why some or shall I say most relationship fails, but by following all the tips you've given it can somehow help save the relationship if both parties are willing to compromise.
Seems like your talking based on your experienced.
Not so but most cases are like this, the relationship gets complicated when both families are in the middle.
No asa pa! π hahaha sorry mah friend Jabs nilaglag kita π
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What you mean by this?
Hugot Eyb? Hahahaha
Not so, but I think mostly cases are like this?
In some ways, yes? But seriously you're right. Sometimes meddling is some of the reason why couple get complicated
Relationships are complex. I can't deal with the complexity of it so I'd rather not be in a relationship.
Forever ka na lang single?? ππ
Siguro π Masaya naman maging single
Sabagay. ππ
I remember when Papa told me " Long engagement is hard". He said that when I told him that me and my ex boyfriend now broke up hahahaha. But it also depends. I have a friend they are 10 years in relationship but still broke up. There's also 8 years but they are happily married now.
I guess it depends on how they handle their relationship.
Yes and it also depends on how they choose each other over circumstances
No matter how long two people are in a relationship, if they are not destined for each other, that relationship will never work no matter what both of them does to save the relationship. There's always a right person for everyone.