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Can you explain it?
Yesterdays' update, everything was normal. There was nothing change. I wake up late. Cooked my viand then ate my lunch. The highlight, I cooked something new in my dinner and ate after. The title is **"Can you explain it?"** since I want to hear an explanation. I want to share you a story. ________________________ There is a woman and her named is Eva. She is about 44 years of age. Her voice is so angelic. She is really sweet. She's staying at home always. She is unemployed. Until one day, her cousin called her that there was a hiring in the company near at the restaurant where her cousin was the owner of the restaurant. On the next day, she prepared herself to went in the office to passed a resume then the other day was the schedule of her interview since it was an urgent hiring and there was no time yet. She wakes up early and prepared herself. She was really nervous too since what if she couldn't passed it. She worried because she wanted to have a job. When she was already in the office, her name was called by a CEO. After 10 minutes, thankfully it was done already. She was hired as the new employee of the company. She went home with a happy face. She told the great news to her family. While she was in bed, she couldn't slept because of the excitement she felt. She prayed and say thank you to our almighty God for the opportunity came in her life. At last, it was morning already, she was really excited to her first day of work. When she was already on her own table and someone assisting to her. She met her new workmate, she was Miss R. Miss R is 27 years old. She work as an assistant of the CEO. She will be going 2 years in the company. She is really kind and hardworking person. One day, Miss R asked Miss M about lunch. They were both decided to went in the restaurant together to buy a foods then went back to the office to ate their lunch. They talked some matters. They laughed each other and they were both comfortable. It was their first time having a time to talk. During lunch time, they were always eating together. The reason why they became close to each other. Miss R was really comfortable being with her because Miss M was like a second mom to her. In break time they were eating snacks together also. Sometimes if there was a celebration, Miss M always invited Miss R. There were a lot of enjoyable memories. They were thankful to met each other. If Miss R got sick. Miss M always being with her and take care of her. Their closeness became strong. They were like mother and daughter. Until one time, Miss R met a new guy. She shared it to her and Miss M was really happy and supporting to her whatever decision she has. After two months passed, they were an official already. Miss M got shocked but she was happy hearing from it. Miss R having time with her boyfriend every weekend by having a tour to the amazing tourist spots. Sometimes she invited Miss M to have a dinner with her boyfriend. Everything went well and there was no problem at all. Her boyfriend was really kind and respectful also. Sometimes her boyfriend gave some snacks to her during break time and shared it also to Miss M. Until one time, Miss R didn't went into the restaurant so Miss M decided that she will going to eat her lunch at the canteen then after 3 minutes Miss R chatted to Miss M to buy her a food and gave her pay after. Not intentionally her boyfriend called her that they were going to eat a lunch in the outside. She hurriedly went outside of the building to see her boyfriend and went after to have a lunch together. While they were both eating, she received a message from Miss M asking where she was. Miss R explained it to her and said sorry to her that she forget by telling her that she ate already in the outside with her boyfriend. She said thank you and kindly asked her to bring the food in her table. After few minutes she was shocked since Miss M replied to her a painful words and she was really angry with her message. Miss R got worried and hurriedly back in the office. She kindly went to the table of Miss M then she was really startled since Miss M was really angry to her and threw the food in the part of her stomach then saying a hurtful words. Miss R didn't know what happened to her. What was the mistake she was done why Miss M got anger to her. Due of painful words Miss R cried and lay on the floor. She was really shocked of Miss M attitude then she was really scared after what happened.
After the scenario, what do you think? What happened to Miss M? What could be the reason? ***Can you explain it?*** `This is only a fictional story...` ________________________ `Thank you so much. I hope I give you some worthy time with this article of mine.` `God bless everyone.😇 Stay safe always.🙏` `-JRamona20 💜`
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Miss understanding always cause big problems. We shouldn't get anger and used to school the temper. Those who has control on their emotions and anger are very lucky. They are very successful people. We should have patience to bear anger. Forgiveness is best way to get over anger. I think she said sorry to her friend and pass on. I am thinking very positive about them.
Yes you're absolutely right that's why we should control our emotions. Don't let it to blow. It's really not good. You can hurt other people. Thank you my friend for thinking positive to them.❤️
Yes exactly, it's my pleasure to read your article and got good vibes.
The only thing I could think of from the scenario you gave is that miss M is probably jealous that miss R went out to eat with her boyfriend, I see no other reason why she should be angry
Yes you have a point Kushyzee. I think that's one of the reason. Miss M got jealous because Miss R there's no time with her.
I have no idea what could have happened. Lack of communication and there is a bit of intolerance and disrespect from the aggressive lady.
Yes ma'am gertu. A lack of communication. There is an attitude too.
There may be a misunderstanding and a bias towards this error.
Yes friend. You're right there will be a misunderstanding. We should control our emotions too.
This is a reality in friendship. When the other one already have a boyfriend, then she can't have more time unlike they used to be before. I think she got jealous and feel bad that her friend prefer to spend a lot of time in her boyfriend; she even forgot to tell her ahead about her date, Miss M waited for long.
Yes sis. You're right. There will be a complications if one of them got a boyfriend and there will be a change from the way they use before that's why a hurtful emotions exist.
Thank God it is only fictional. If I were Ms R, I would cry too! Well, communication is the key.
Yes sis me too if I will be in the situation too. I will cry for sure. Yes it's better to have a good communication.
Why do Miss M is over react that way, but we cannot blame her since she expected that Miss R is really meant it. Sometimes there are instances that we could not expect and it will lead a misunderstanding.
Yes kleh the word misunderstanding. They must talk to each other and settle the things but we need to control our emotions too because it's not good. You will worsen the situation.
Pero wagas naman si ateng mong girl, I mean they are friends pero wala syang karapatan na gawin yun masyado syang ano 🙄
Yes sis tamang tama. Wala siyang rights na gawin yun kay Miss R. Dapat nag usap sila maayos pero may attitude pala si Miss M. Mali talaga siya dun sa ginawa niya.
Maybe she was just in her menopausal stage and that she is too sensitive, that is why she overacting.😅
Yes sis you have a point. Di ba maiba din yung mood at attitude pag menopausal stage na, yes yung sensitive na tao kaya grabe talaga mag react at ma hurt. Kunting ano lang big deal na sa kanila yun.
The reason why she reacted that why is limitless. it could be anything. But I think that she is a bit jealous of the new attention given by Ms. R to her boyfriend.
Yes friend you're right the word "attention". I think that is the reason why she's angry. She became jealous because it's their routine that they eat together during lunch time.
I would get "tampo" lang but not angry though. I would not do such thing. OA ni Ms. M. Haha!
Yes tama friend. Dapat I control natin at mali talaga yung ginawa ni Miss M.
True ka jan friend. We should know our limits talaga.
Yes friend kasi minsan we don't have a rights naman talaga na gawin natin yung ginawa ni Miss M. lalo't nat hindi kayo magkadugo.
Siguro may misunderstanding lang or kaya hindi siya sanay na hindi nakatuon ang attention. Pero kahit ano pa yun hindi dapat ganoon ang approach.
Yes Langga tama. Parang nawala yung attention sa kanya kaya parang nakafeel siya ng jealous. Yes hindi dapat ganun ginawa ni Miss M sobrang mali talaga yun. Pwede naman mag talk sila privately.
Kaya nga ate pwede sila mag talk in private para makalinawan talaga.
Yes Langga. Dapat I settle in a good way.
Misunderstanding i guess. You should give time to recover and control your emotions..
Yes lovely you're right. Always we should control our emotions since if not it will make the things worst.
I feel there was a bit of a misconception between parties and I also saw jealousy playing out as well… seriously I felt this story and what was missing was communication..
Yes sir Gozie. The jealousy indeed that's why we need to avoid that. Yes sir the communication, it conclude that we should have a good communication always.
Siguro selos? Kasi nga diba nasanay sya na lagi nya kasama si Ms. M
Oo miss yen. Nagselos talaga siya kasi nabago na at nasanay siya na kasama niya lagi si Miss R tuwing lunch.
Maybe she's jealous. That's the only assumption I can think of as of this moment. But I am pretty sure that it will be sorted out once they talk about it in a cool way.
Yes sis you're definitely right. Whatever happens you need to settle the things in a good way, there are a lot of ways like talk privately.
You know women and they can be. I might guess she was jealous of her and with such attitude towards her, it's obvious that she was jealous of her and the boyfriend. Meanwhile, I can see you love eating Viand🙈🙈
Yes you're right princess. Miss M didn't control her emotion which is jealousy. Hehhee can you guess what is my viand princess?😁