I felt their pain 💔

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2 years ago
Topics: Parents, Children, Pain, Agony

Ask the ones who living are without their parents, the ones who want to be loved by someone and to cuddle in their mother's arms and the ones who want their father to be around.Their several wishes are crushed under the agony and distress, they were filled with life but now their eyes are mourning at the loss of something.


I know, I know its possible to live without mother, to walk forever without father's hand to support,but there is always something missing in their life.There is something which always make them feel sad and despite of having everything, their world seems empty.



I can't control myself to utter these words because of pain I felt in the eyes of kids I met today.To make their pain understand,I will tell you the whole story.


A girl lived near my area which was mentally unwell. Her mother was already dead, and her siblings were also married and living their lives happily. She was used to going outside without letting anyone know.(What we could expect from a mentally unwell person)So her family decided to marry her to lower their burden of taking care of her.

They started to find a person, with great difficulty they managed to find a limp person, who agreed to marry her.There we're so many who tried to restrict her family from doing so but what could they do before her family's decision.So they both get married soon.

After the one year of their marriage they were being blessed with a baby boy.It was challenging for that girl to bring up a child while she herself was mentally unwell.How could her family and husband expect her to raise a child in her illness?But nobody care for her and newborn and they left her alone to take care of the child.But what happened next was unexpected.


Her husband was a labor,so he was at work and she raised the child alone.Slowly the child was being unwell but nobody cared and one day he died.It was really painful for everyone but still they were not ready to learn the lesson from what has happened.They still wanted to have a newborn.So she conceived again and gave a birth to girl, after that continuously she gave birth to 3 children.Now she was raising 4 despite of being unwell but this time her husband was also supporting her in upbringing of his children.

Days were passing and kids were living a better life than the one who died at first.Their father was taking care of them, but there was something other in their destiny. Their father, who was only hope left for their better future died with a sudden heart attack few months ago.

When I heard this news, I was shattered. The only thought that I had at that time in my mind was about the children. I felt their pain and our whole community supported them by supplying food and shelter, to at least provide them a good life.


But their grief has not ended yet, and they have to passed through a hard time yet because their mother is missing from few days. Anyone has no idea that where is she gone or someone kidnapped her, anything could be expected. They informed the police and also shared her photograph on social media platforms but all in vain.


Her children are left alone....💔💔💔. People are still helping them by providing food and basic necessities but what's about the parents???? No one can bring them back, no matter how much care they receive from others but it can't be related to the one their parents can give them, no matter if she was mentally unwell, but to her kids she was their mother and they still miss her.


Today I happened to met her kids on the way, I was just heartbroken 💔💔💔.Their pain could be seen in their eyes.They have not their parents around at this age when kids are in utmost need of them...😔. Their age ranges from 4 to 10 years. Just think about it and you would understand the phase they are passing through.


At the end I only want to ask her family, is that was necessary to marry her???? Everything was clear but still they think it better to load her with the problems, which she was not able to carry. The death of her husband was Almighty's will and we are no one to question. But if they had a mother, they could still live a happy life. But we can't blame their mother because it was not her fault but of her family.

They might be able to survive but the hole which has left in their life would never be filled. I pray Almighty keep them save and under his protected.Amen

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They exacerbated the existing problem. I felt sorry for the children. Some of us are beginning to succumb and it takes years to balance.

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2 years ago

They saw her problem but still made her marry and have 4 kids are you sure they are her family?

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2 years ago

Yeh and this is the thing which amazed me also

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2 years ago

I'm in tears. So sad to read their story. Man... I wasn’t ready for this. 😔 Still thinking about that girl. She was mentally sick but raised her 4 children. Her husband helped her at last moment. And then... Oh dear. 💔

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2 years ago

You are right it was heartbreaking that how she raised them and now missing suddenly. Think about them,they are living without their parents .

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2 years ago

😔 aww dear

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