Be wise and change yourself first

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3 years ago

Let your fears out to flew away in the air,

And to fled away with every drop of rain,

Essence of your good deeds will stay on this land,

As long as you are brave and strong enough to stand..!!

Positivity is the tool you need to live,

Your courage will make you to fight,

Learn to bear the intensity and scars of the world, 

No matter how long and hard it will stand..!!

Life is the battle between good and bad,

But the choice of good depends on you,

Take something which is fair and new,

So it can lead you to path which is true..!!!

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Sometimes you feel disappointed and hopeless by the continuous failures and everything seems you useless. Even you feel yourself as rejected and unfortunate person, but you forget that,

If God cares about sparrow, how much more he is going to care about you..!!!

The one who brought you in this world, the one who created this whole universe and facilities for you, will never let you fall. He is the most merciful. So why are you sad at your hardships, this is just a test for you.

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Few days ago I saw a video on social media which upset my heart, but at the same time I was very proud at the bravery of the girl. A terrible incident happened to her few years ago. She was playing with her friends when an electric wire fell on her. She was badly affected, and doctors cut off both her arms and she would be disabled for life.

But do you know what I'm proud of? She didn't give up even though it must have been very difficult in the beginning because of sudden amputation of both hands, and you can know well how much it hurts. But she is still studying, and doing her work with her feet. At first, I could not believe it, but then I saw video that how courageously she was doing her job, which truly touched my heart. We should learn from such brave people, no matter how difficult life might be for them, but they don't give up, rather they bravely face each difficulty. So why not we?

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We always mourn for our unfulfilled desires, and never give thanks to our Creator for the blessings we already have. We never think that our life is better than thousands people. Except the material world he has also given us a healthy body, hands and feet to work, tongue to taste and the eyes to see the colors of this world, but we are always ungrateful. Ask the ones who are deprived of such blessings, so whenever you get something big or something that you wished for, you should be thankful for it.


We always stay busy in blaming others for one or two reasons, we always find faults with what they do, and try to put the blame of our wrongdoings on them, there also involves the matter of our stingy nature, and difference of opinions.


Take an example of government, where everyone blames others for their inability to holds the matters or sometimes its get trolled for one or other problems like shortage of water, load shedding, dirty and demolished roads, lack of employment, inability to provide medical facilities, and corruption. I know it's the responsibility of the government but to change this shitty system we need to change ourselves first because we are also responsible for it in one or other way.


Similarly, we also condemn the people around us for their bad behavior, sometimes we even want to make them responsible for our failures, but never pays heed to our own attitude which lead us to the bad consequences. So instead of changing others, be wise and change yourself first...!

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This speaks volume. You are definitely right sis, the change should start in us. And truly, the girl is really and courageous. She deserves to be appreciated.

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3 years ago

That's the sad reality, we blame others for the mistakes we made without realizing that we fail because of our decision and choices in life. Even if we are told what to do but the fact that we have our own free will to decide and make our own choices in life, we are the ones to be blamed for our actions.

I am sometimes like this but I am truly regretful for the things I did. Now instead of blaming others, I tried to make a way to correct and straightened the wrong acts that I did.

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3 years ago

I am glad to hear that you always try to correct yourself first.

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3 years ago

I always praise uplifting posts. This one too. Perfectly explained everything.

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3 years ago

Thank you for appreciation,I am glad

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3 years ago

The girl's story in the middle brought tears in me, so sad.. also so proud of her for not giving up

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3 years ago

Yeh dear, she is truly a brave lady

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3 years ago

Soo true...we should have to keep move don't loose the heart

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3 years ago

Right being hopeful we can achieve anything in life.

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3 years ago

My neighbor aunt think she's perfect and responsible to change other peoples.

Peoples stop focusing on their selves and start giving lessons to other.

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3 years ago

She should must change herself first.

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3 years ago

You are right. We go to give knowledge to people without changing ourselves. First you have to develop yourself as a wise person.

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3 years ago

Right,because we have no right to criticism others

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3 years ago

True. People get discouraged easily and gave up like whenever they feel hopeless about anything. Yet there are those people who seem to have nothing in life but still choose to live to survive.

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3 years ago

Right dear, and such people truly deserve to be appreciated.

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