Attracting people that matters
Attracting other people requires you to be the most interesting person in the room. This might sound like a tall order, but it isn’t one at all. You just need to learn how to master conversation, and you’ll know how to attract other people, as well as find your true soul mate.
There are so many people out there who want to talk to us. We just need to learn how to get their interest in making ourselves more interesting. If you don’t make yourself stand out, you won’t be the one they’ll choose to speak with. Take a small step out of your comfort zone and try these conversation starters the next time you meet someone new. Let them talk about themselves for a while. This helps you build an instant bond with the other person because true friends are rare, and listening is a good indicator of compatibility.
Finish the sentence “Areas of improvement in my life that I’d like to focus on include…” By now, you should have them talking. You lay the groundwork for an interesting conversation. When the other person asks you the same question, tell them about an area of your own life you want to improve, even if it’s not similar to theirs.
Conversations with people that interest you are the best way to attract them. You can’t make people talk to you, but you can interest them on what they know, and they will feel the need to talk to you. It may sound like a mystery — but anyone who’s anyone has mastered the art of conversation. And what’s more, you too can do it too. You just need to know how.
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You, too, can Learn to draw, any new skill and people will flock towards you. People remember those who bore them and people hang out with those who appear to be interesting and fun. At work, people will want to be around you, because you will hold their attention. You can make yourself the center of any social event, the most popular person in the room, and the life and soul of the party, if you know how to make small talk.
If you want to be interesting, stop talking and start listening. It’s easy to get wrapped up in the details of your story and forget that the real action takes place between the lines. You can master conversation by learning how to listen; you’ll be so good at it that people will find you irresistibly attractive.
Conversation is a tool that can be used to attract people who want to talk to you, and to make a true connection with the people around you. It’s how we meet the people we date, how we get jobs, and how we make great friends. In many ways, it is the fuel that drives our lives—yet so few of us are taught how to do it well.
