Becoming smart is everyone’s desire. And yes, being smart pays off. It helps to lead a better life in every sphere.Smart personality doesn't mean outer smartness only..smartness comes from your act only. Smart people exactly knows what to do, when to do and how to do it.. U don't need to sit in saloons parlrs or spa to enhance your personality. Just sharp your skills in every field nd be attentive as at any instant your smartness can be checked.
But to become smart, one needs two key elements—
1-Knowledge — the area in which one wants to become smart and know how to.
2-Consistency — it may take more time to become smart than it took for someone else. It can vary. That is why consistency in your actions important.
So there are many areas in which gaining knowledge may help you to become smarter.
Here is one thing you can do to become smart instantly.
“Review your past”
To become smart, we tend to rely on new set of knowledge and skills.
But you can become smart from past knowledge as well. Try this—
1-Identify three big mistakes you made in life. Why you made it and how you can avoid doing it.
2-Recognize three people in your life who were toxic. What were their traits and how they impacted you. And how you can avoid such people.
3-Figure out three books you started but did not finish. Why you did not finish. And how you can avoid picking such books or finish them.
4-Find three common mistakes people make in their lives and what can you do to avoid it. The areas of it can be as many as you think of — health, finance, relationship, profession.
5-When you reviewed all, you know what you should not do in your life. And when you know it, put it in practice and ensure not to do it.
And you are an improved and smart personality.Perhaps you are looking for the endorsement from certain people that you are a smart personality.
Discover the smartness you already have. Focus on that. Respect that and make the best out of that.
Congratulate yourself every time you do some thing smarter and you will soon find yourself appearing smarter and smarter with every passing day.
Moreover,let some talk about improvement of your attitude.Just 5 tips I thought of off the top of my head:
1-Any time you feel anger, sadness, jealousy etc., instead of trying to suppress or ignore the emotion, allow yourself to process it and after, ask yourself whether the situation was justifiable for such a level of reaction…
2-Set clear goals and targets, starting with daily, weekly, monthly etc. and look back to see if you’re keeping up, and if not, how you can speed things up….
3-Keep a general positive outlook, a good balanced mix of realism and optimism, and apply this to any situation that arises in work, study, relationships etc. Realism is looking at the facts and what actually is going on, optimism is the vision to see a positive outlook to the situation… everything is temporary, will this really matter in 5 years time? Big decisions, take the time to work through things, but all else can be wavered, pick your battles….
4-Think of your mentors, heroes (Elon Musk, Warren Buffett, Bill Gates etc.), now think of yourself and don’t try become them… Not everyone can become the next pioneers of space exploration or become billionaires through investing, and no one wants carbon copies… Rather, look at how these top guys live their lives, and mirror their good habits… These become almost like rituals for the mos successful people…. Pick specific characteristics you like, be it work ethic or creativity, and see how you can employ it into your daily lives…
5-Which leads on to…. Make small daily improvements / changes that when accumulated become grand… Do two things, one, adopt the good habits (reading regularly, eating healthily, being active and about) and two, drop the bad habits (excessively complaining, overthinking etc.)… One by one overtime your attitude should change…..