It's okay that you blame others for your failure or woes, but it's no longer okay the moment you read this post.
I don't have money, I don't have a connection, and I wasn't born with a silver spoon. Sometimes you say "my life would have been better if and only if I have the good looks, education, resources, and... "
Hey, calm down bro. For the first time sis, relax. I think I have the solution to all these ifs. Well, if you care to breakthrough and ditch your current situation, then I think you should stick around and read this to the end.
But if not, just pass. I'm quite sure you want to be better anyway, so stick around.
You see, life isn't a bed of roses. It doesn't give you what you think you deserve and certainly not what you wish for.
Life only gives you what you place a demand on. Truly, you didn't have rich parents and neither do you have relatives who can help.
However, have you ever considered that you, I mean only you are responsible for your life? No one else can take responsibility for your life except you.
Thank God for those who have the wealth and connections thrown at them. But come to think of it, someone paid that price of making life better for them. Someone took responsibility and sacrificed so much for them to achieve that.
Maybe their parents, grandparents, or great grandparents I don't know. I'm only most certain that someone went through the eye of the needle for them.
See ehn, what you do today has a tremendous effect on your tomorrow. Your actions and inactions are seeds down. Guess what, you will reap them all in due season.
My question for you is this: what sacrifice are you making for your life? What seed are you sowing towards your future? What are you currently doing to make life better for your children and great-grandchildren yet unborn?
Would they be able to look back and bless your name for giving them so much to fall back on? Will your entire generation live to bless your name for being a blessing to them?
If you continue playing the self-pity game, what benefit is that to you? You can blame people all you want for your situation, but that's not going to change anything, it will only make things worse.
You can wallow in the pain of the past and refuse to get up, you will still be at the receiving end. (No man can even help you if you are not first helped by God. The good news is: you are helped by God).
Therefore, don't you think that it's high time you started working on your mind? I think it's time you started seeing beyond the limitations because after the barricade is a long free route. Why not forgive those you have grudges within your heart and move ahead.
Honestly, you can cling so much to the past that it leaves your arms too full to embrace the future.
Get up on your feet, be encouraged today. Renew your mind with the word of life. The help you are looking for is right there with you. You've just been too blind to see it.
The resources you need are there in you, you only need your mind to step and match up with what you have long envisioned.
Take the necessary responsibility for your life. (I don't mean that you become a fraudster or a gangster; be true in all your ways). Leave your comfort zone. Make that positive move, stretch yourself farther. Then you will discover that you were born to be a deliverer to many others in your lineage.
Would you take up this task? It's the best decision to make.
Thanks for reading!
See you on the next one!
