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Bullying Surely you will hate this word because you must have suffered it at least once in your life. Especially when you're at school. Children tend to be bad in many cases and spend their time abusing some who they consider are not as "cool" as they are. If you are a little obese, wear glasses, come from a humble family, are shy, etc, you are already the perfect target for being bullied. Even sometimes, you may still suffer bullying without fulfilling these characteristics. They just do it to you, because they like to do it. When this situation is not controlled in time, it can become dangerous, and the boy or girl can even commit suicide. I have just been looking at some news about children who have preferred to end their lives, then face or tell what was happening. One of them, with the knowledge of the family and even the school, could not stop his abuser, and this behavior continued. In the end, it ended in tragedy and the little boy, just over 10 years old, preferred to take his own life rather than continue enduring the bullying. I have a son who will start school in these months and I have to be prepared to help him and face all these problems that will come into his life now. Many children are only interested in playing and always doing the wrong things, one of them is to annoy others. They feel empowered and empowered to carry out actions that detract from another person. For them, everything is a game, but for the one who receives the bullying in his own flesh, it is a total nightmare. How to prevent bullying of your children: Be attentive to all their behavior. Talk to him and have mutual trust. Provide constant support. Visit their school and talk to their teachers. Instruct him on the specific topic and how to protect himself. Teach him to respect others. These behaviors will make your child more responsible and avoid bonding with these types of people. There is also the so-called CyberBullyng, which is harassment through social networks and making you feel bad by using them. Write you on your profile demeriting you for flaws or even spreading false news about you. This is one of the worst as it has a huge range. We are talking about the internet, where everything reaches a global reach in just a few seconds. So your face would be on everyone's monitor or cell phone screen, with very little effort. If you become viral, where a photo of you or a video with some false news about you, it is the worst thing that could happen to you in life. This can even have legal repercussions on whoever spreads this type of photo or video. Better not echo them. Put yourself in that person's place and think that it could perfectly be you or your child in that situation. Unfortunately, it is an evil that affects society in general. Even many teachers do not give them the importance that this entails. Some kids in other countries just shoot it out. They look for a revolver or machine gun, or they steal it from their father, or they acquire it illegally and end up at school shooting everyone. News like this, they don't stop coming out when you least expect it. Society has reached a point where it does not pay attention to these problems, but we parents cannot sit idly by and we have to act now. If we sit idly by, it may be too late afterward. Have you suffered bullying? Do you know someone who is suffering from it?
https://pixabay.com/es/illustrations/computadora-ciberacoso-chico-5777377/ The solution is to ask for help and support from those people who love and appreciate you. Don't stay silent. You have to try to solve the situation, get ahead and seek help, even professional help if necessary. Raise your voice, so it's not just your battle. You will be surprised that everyone will want to help you and try to make this situation go away forever. Life is the most precious thing we have, and we must not allow a few to make it hell. Live, love, and enjoy. Whoever tries to prevent that, is nothing but a loser. You are a winner and you have everything going for you. **Just depend on you.**
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I hate those people who bully others friend. They make other people life miserable. Parents should be responsible for their children. They should teach their children to have a good moral and values, I agree my friend so that their kids are respectful.
Indeed my friend :(
Yes my friend. 🥺
In our life we are all more or less victims of Bullying. But yes it is more in school-college life. Which affects our personal life in many ways.
school-college life is the most difficult part of our life
I hope every parents will build a strong connection to their children, even teachers to their students, because the reason why victims of bullying end with depression, is that no one is there to defend or listen to them.
The teachers and parents are fundamental, they can stop bullying
Any child that reports being bullied should be given a special attention; so that the child won't do evil to himself.
Indeed my friend. Is sad what is happened those days.
Bullying is never acceptable act by any one. Because it creates stress , anxiety and disorders of complexity in others. University , college , offices , public places where are you face such things, don't ignore , just stand up in response , you will see next they never get courge to do it . Our silence over it give encouragement to others.
"Our silence over it give encouragement to others." Nice one
There are many children who suffer from this kind of situation. Bullying is everywhere in school and kids are the most target of it. I experienced bullying during my elementary school days and it affects me so much emotionally and mentally. But thankfully I overcome it. Godbless you and nice to met you here ☺️
Thank you my friend :)
Bullying, cyberbullying is one of the worst things and it damages the mental state of a person who cannot handle it effectively. I actually haven't suffered from any bullying and neither have I known any person in my knowledge who is a victim
You are lucky then :)
yeah maybe
Bullying is a major act that could lead one to commit suicide if care is not taken. This is why parents and teachers needs to keep monitoring a child´s behavior and give them the assuring word that they are free to open up to them whenever they encounter any problem. I think making a child comfortable talking to you will help such an individual to trust you and open up to you.
When they reach the limit of committing suicide, it is because they no longer find another way out. That is why the importance of being attentive to everything and providing constant support
Bullying is everywhere today. If classic bullying is easy to spot... the online one can go undetected
You have right my friend. We as parents have to be attentive to all these situations with our children.
I also faced bullying in my childhood and that was the worst thing ever because it changes the mind of a child. A scared thoughts make a place in child mind. Btw, how is your son?
Thanks for asking. Even with physical therapy. It has not been easy :(
When I bullied before I don't usually tell my parents about this. I just keep it secretly
Keeping it a secret is not the solution. you need to talk
The thing about bullying is that it's effects don't just stop after leaving the school. It is carried on to adulthood and can have serious adverse effects on the well-being of such person.
100% agree with you my friend