Lesson of love
Men attend to woman for two reasons, Sex and Love, but in most cases, men do not marry for sex or for love, they marry for stability. Let me explain: A man can love you and not marry you. A man can have sex with you for years without marrying you, But immediately he finds someone who brings stability in his life, he marries her.
What I mean by stability is "peace of mind" I have seen some guys who made this statement "I love this lady but I can spend the rest of life with her". Men are visionaries when they think about marriage, they do not think about wedding dresses, bridesmaids,..Anything that most ladies thinks is fanciful.
Man think whether this woman can build me a home, can she take care of my kids and I, can she give me peace of mind? men don't like ladies who gives them discomfort. This is why a man can stay for years and meet another in a month, then get married to her. It is the comfort of having peace of mind they want. Sex is a pleasure, Love is an affection, Respect is vital between each other.
Thanks for your time to read this.
Love have lesson that we must learn before go into it, girls have to lean from their past mistake, men love someone that care for them because sometime they behave like baby