We are in a time where most of the youth hardly understand the process of development. We are not patient and content while growing up because we believe it is not worth it. No wonder we have youth indulging in cyber crime and armed robbery, kidnapping and other bad social evils.
It's really bad and makes me wonder what will happen in the future. If we, as the supposed leaders of tomorrow, cannot be patient enough to go through various stages and stages of development. Everyone wants to make quick money except the learning process. We all just want to make good money and live life, regardless of how or where it comes from.
If this skipping process continues, what will we pass on to our unborn generation?
What lessons and experiences do we pass on to our children and the whole world?
The truth of the matter is, there's enough learning to be done before long-lasting earnings can materialize.
Come to think of it? Have you ever wondered why most people look to get rich quick income from illegal sources? I mean, their money goes down the drain in no time and they come back to zero or they are short-lived.
Do we remember that a house cannot stand without a foundation? No matter how beautiful the structure looks, it will still collapse? The same principle applies to money that has no basis, such wealth will not last, and that basic structure is acquired through a substantial learning process.
So, what is this learning process?
Learning process is a major fundamental component required for development. It helps to build wisdom, knowledge, courage, perseverance, consistency, experience and exposure. All these factors are the key to development.
Without knowledge in a specified/chosen aspect or job, one is bound to give up in the long run. Experience also sharpens us and gives us practical knowledge so that we can reach out to others.
The learning phase of development can be compared to the seeds planted to make a beautiful tree. These seeds may not look like a big tree in the beginning, but in their due time and season they will grow and spread their roots. This is the definition of development.
What is development without influence and blessings on others? How will others benefit from your wealth of knowledge when knowledge or experience is not in the first place?
Shocking but bitter truth, isn't it?
I heard the story of a young man who wanted wealth at all costs. His wise friend, John, advised him to focus on growing up by learning a particular skill or job. This handsome young man named Bobby felt that his friend was leading him astray and felt that he had nothing more to do but earn quick money and live lavishly.
Meanwhile, Bobby and John were skilled artists but still, they felt that drawing would be of no use to them, even if they had spent their time and resources developing themselves.
Bobby despises his friend for his advice and decides to make new friends who can relate to his Get-Rich Syndrome. He ventured into cybercrime and any other illegal means. He and his new friends soon went live for every party in town, where they spent their money lavishly. John, on the other hand, went to work as an apprentice in an art store where he learned more about art, diversified into different art areas and always followed the latest trend.
Fast forward to today's date, John now makes millions selling his artwork both in his large stores and online.
Bobby on the other hand is nowhere to be seen. He is full of remorse somewhere in jail. He was caught in the course of one of his criminal activities and was sentenced to life imprisonment.
A very interesting and instructive story, isn't it?
Now, let's move on to the way forward. Let us briefly discuss some of the factors that we should consider at this stage of learning to ensure a smooth learning process and win in the end.
Factors to consider during the learning process
The factors discussed below are the factors that keep us in control during our learning phase. These factors are very important as they will help in making the journey smooth.
Focus on a specific purpose:
I have found that most of the times, why we get tired and stop learning is because we choose to take on too many things each time. It's good to have an idea about at least a few things, but the truth is that you may not achieve that desired growth if you don't work your way up to a specific goal per time.
Know everything about something and know something about everything.
Learn to focus your energy, drive and resources on a specific objective and set deadlines. Having a time frame will help measure your momentum and serve as a growth indicator.
Be open to learning:
Always have the urge to learn. It has been proven to improve rapid growth. Most of the times, the problem also lies in not recognizing the opportunities and willingness to learn. Avoid having an indifferent attitude towards learning and be hungry for more.
peer pressure:
Research shows that peer pressure is a major factor that affects productivity among youth. Negative peer pressure has led many young people to engage in evil social evils and early grads.
Peer pressure can also be well channeled into the way friends decide to push each other to grow.
Currently here at my university, @starstrings01, @monioluwa and I are departmental fellows. We've built a workflow whereby we check on each other's progress and leave anyone behind. We go to classes together, visit the library and even discuss issues related to the hive. Recently, we all have registered for a paid diploma degree in software engineering which will start next year. This is a perfect example of positive peer pressure.
Avoid Greed:
Greed has never shown anyone the right path in a long time. Without a proper vision of what lies ahead, the lure will seek out sharp, sharp corners. Being content with the understanding that your seeds will bear good fruit is better and pays off more than greed.
We have heard stories of youth indulging in criminal acts because they want more and more without work. They believe that deceiving others will not take into account its repercussions.
So here are my questions for you, my dear friend:
What are you primarily focusing on that can bring your desired comfort in the long run?
What would you do differently today reading this?
Do you feel like you need to redefine your engagement because of negative peer pressure?
Are you willing to learn more and gain more knowledge in your desired field or job?
What's next after answering all these questions honestly?
What is the next step?
In the end, yes, I know it may not seem like you want it now and you have insatiable wants and needs.
Yes, I know you sometimes feel that skipping the learning process at least pays off in the form of instant gratification, but why risk whatever comes after going through the learning process? Why sell our bright future for a porridge?
Keep learning and keep pushing. Your time to shine will come. Now build in silence.
I look forward to seeing you on top with lots of values. Best wishes for a bright future in the coming days
