Love or trust, who will win this race?

We humans need to love and be loved from the moment we are born. Just as eating and drinking are our bodily needs, loving and being loved is an indispensable need of our soul. Another important emotion is trust. Trusting and being able to trust is a phenomenon that will make us feel good throughout life. Which is important to our relationships, which do we give priority to? Can a correct ratio be established? A relationship starts with love first, then progresses in the embrace of trust. I think love starts the race first. Love comes first before trust. The feeling of love is the emotion that takes us under its influence at the first moment. The heart beats so fast that the eye becomes so blind that we focus on one emotion. Trust is entrusting yourself to the other person. Without trust, you cannot reveal your ideas, your thoughts, in short, the real you. Even though you have love, if there is not enough trust, chaos and unhappiness will prevail in that relationship after a certain period of time. If you love but don't trust, you will always have a relationship on the edge and you will get tired of loving over time.

We would not be wrong if we guessed that ninety percent of the poems read, movies watched or music listened to are about love or love-related topics. Really it is. In fact, the subject of love is our weakest point. No matter how smart we are, we all succumb to this feeling. It's our blindest spot. Perhaps it is a sublime feeling that separates us from animality. While some of us see it as a flaw and describe it as a weakness, some of us see it as a blessing. Whether it is true or not, I will not deal in this article. There is another different window. I want to show it to you.

Love is perhaps the easiest and best selling emotion in the world of media. People have a special weakness for love. To love and be loved is a human need. If we are different from the robot, it is because of our feelings. But there is more than just love. It's also to trust. I'm starting to think that love is oversold now. People everywhere are looking for true love. Dozens of people try to find their soul mate. However, like every human love, it ends in frustration. The reason is press and broadcast. However, real life is not like that. In real life, the feeling of trust comes above all emotions. You can communicate as much as you trust. The more you trust the other person, the more you open yourself up to him. Not the person you love! You can truly love a person with all your heart. However, if you have trust problems in your mind, you will never be able to walk on the same path as that person. You may think that you can trust the person you love, but not always :) If he lied or cheated on you, you will continue to love him, but once your trust has been shaken. There is also the opposite of this. People you don't like but trust. Maybe you even hate it, but you can do business with him because you trust him. There are many examples of this in the business world.

Trust is better than love, friends. Love or romance can be deceiving sometimes. Remember that all love ends. Love usually does not end instantly, but it is a feeling that gradually decreases. But trust is different. Trust can be broken with a simple lie. The feeling of trust is to entrust yourself to the other person. If you don't trust a person, you can never be with them for long. It is necessary to guess how big consequences even a small lie will have. In short, being an honest person is more important than being in love. If there are two feelings, it would be nice, but if one is missing, let's go back and read this article and think about it :) To give a very simple concrete example, people do not end their marriages because of lack of love. In fact, in most marriages, that love turns into a little more respect over time. But when it comes to cheating, trust ends first, then marriage ends. Also, friends, etc. This also applies to our relationships with all people.