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Imagine at the age of 20s, you are undergraduate. Jobless. Purposeless. Experience less. Barely have 10$ in your bank account. You have nothing. But instead of making plan of what you should do for your future, you keep focusing on how your crush doesn't like you back, on why your boyfriend cheats on you, on why nobody loves you. Does this sound right to you?
During your 20s, love is not what make you grow. And at this point of your life, study hard so that you can have a high chance of getting a high paid job. Read more books so that you can understand the basic knowledge of the world. Do part time job or internship so that you know what working environment is like and adapt to it. And yeah save money so that whenever a business idea pops up in your head, you have enough resources to do it.
When love is real, it will find you. You don't have to chase for love and forget to plan your life. Because when you chase for love, you will lose both love and life.
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