Isn't your husband romantic?
Thought there would be a life full of love only after marriage. Hundreds had imagined. But in reality nothing matches the imagination. Your husband never comes to the kitchen. Do not hug from behind. The husband does not know why he should take flowers for his wife. Ninety-five husbands in one hundred do not know which flower the wife likes.
Smell the hair? Why? Does the hair have a different smell or again?
Where on a rainy day you can sit with him and listen to poetry or lie down together. No, he's been in the office all day. Never held your hand and said, 'What! What is the condition of the finger. This is the condition of the hand while working! '
And you also assumed that imagination and reality are different. Because nothing of what you thought is happening after marriage. You're upset. Thought, if the man was romantic!
Think of this idea a little differently. Do you know why only these few things go through our heads?
Because in stories, novels, movies, these are inserted in our heads. And if not like the song or the story we say, my husband is not romantic. In fact, the storyteller's job is just to write stories.
The director's job is just to make movies. So he made movies / stories by inserting the imagination of the state. Which does not match our reality. They did their job, but what about your husband?
The thing that doesn't show up in the story is your husband's job. The story or the movie does not show how a man goes to the office and works only to fulfill his wife's small whims. You have to listen to the boss in the office, someone has customers in the shop all day. You have to talk all day.
Screaming, ganja, sweat getting wet in the heat. Someone sits at the computer again for six / seven hours straight. Smoke billows from the head. Serious level headaches due to work pressure.
Someone stays on the run all day again. Finishing this work is another job. Another operation after seeing one patient. Another product after sunburned product delivery. The end of looking for a home. Someone got a job in a pharmaceutical company again, while managing the client, his condition deteriorated. Hungry in the stomach, but the customer in the store. Well, I'll go eat later. Let's look at the customer's account first. Match as never again. Some are building bridges in the scorching sun, some are building roads, hundreds of such working people are the husbands of girls. They work tirelessly day and night only for the family. It doesn't show in movies.
Every day of their daily life is like this. Occasionally a little rest, work again. The girls never saw how hard the husbands worked and said, why my husband is not romantic!
Yes, a wife and a lot of work at home, the whole family has to be taken care of. But there is a thousand times difference between doing one's own work in one's own house and doing the work of others under others. When you are employed, wandering in the field, you will realize.
Don’t complain so much if husbands aren’t romantic. Maybe they talk too little about your beauty. Gives less time to romance. But believe me, they love you. Maybe the medium of expression is different.
The way each person expresses love is different. He might express it differently. He is most worried about your illness, he thinks about how he will manage the money to get you a sari or shopping. But it is also love.
Brings just a gift on the wedding anniversary. Listens to all your words, tries to fulfill all your whims. If not, what was the obstacle for someone to fulfill your wishes?
Hmmm, that's the reality ...