Speak ill of no man.

I think one of the hardest things I have to learn and do as an adult is speaking ill of no man.

Have you met men, 👋. They can be so annoying, frustrating,pretentious, and arrogant. But what can your humble self do, you have to learn to speak no ill of them.

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Hi guys as usual update on my September

How am I? :

Answer: I am enjoying my life

How is September going?:

Answer: better than my expectations

Any challenges:

Answer: 🤧 I sent money to the wrong cryptowallet and lost that money , so I am unpleased about that .

AlsoI had more clients than usual, now I have to work more,not a bad thing but....energy 😅.

In all things I am still grateful to God.

All the same , I am anticipating miracles in September, my Month of possibilities 🙌

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Back to business

So why is it necessary to speak no ill of no man.

1.God said so.

• Titus 3:2, ESV: "to speak evil of no one, to avoid quarreling, to be gentle, and to show perfect courtesy toward all people

I know most people don't like hearing God said so business, if you are such persons 🙄, well God is God and you are lucky he is a good and generous God. If you know you know😅😉 .

2. For your mental health: Just imagine if all you do is garbage in ,garbage out, I.e. you listen to gossips and then you get upset and you find an opportunity to tell the gossip, and trust me, opportunities like that usual come , even without a scale of demand.

You then tell this gossip and most times, more often than not, you regret that you ever mentioned that in the first place, so why go through the stress at all, just speak ill of no man.

1. You want peace with all men: No matter how much of a introvert you might be, you don't want anyone calling you a gossip or a back stabber, or any terrible name, it is really not hard, just mind your business, if that would not work, keep your opinion to yourself especially if it would cause more hardvoc than good.

How to avoid speaking ill of mem

1. Try as much as possible to think great of everyone no matter how terrible that person may be .

2. You can try excusing their behaviour, I'm other than you are gossip or ill intention free.

3. Love covers every multitude of sin,"hatred stirs up conflict, but love covers over all wrongs."so it pays to just love everyone. Being pretentious is not the same as loving ever man.

Of all methods mentioned, I think loving people is still the best method ever .

I am sorry to have bore you, I am just reminding myself of some things I might need to work on. I refuse to let people determine how my day should turn out, so my confession:

Thank you to this amazing people above and my wonderful audience, you guys are the best.

God bless ya😘