Take the Bitter with the Sweet

Our life is a perfect blend of ups and downs, bitter and sweet things, ebbs and flows. Sometimes some extraordinary things happens in our life which light up our life by making our life more beautiful, more enjoyable, brings smile on our face and there are also some thing happens which shatter the sweet melody of our life, tear our heart apart, break our heart into millions of pieces, we want or not it does not matter we have to accept both bitter and sweet if we want to live an imperfectly perfect balanced life. These are the things no matter how much we try we can't force them not to occur in our life but one thing which we can do is to accept them both with a open heart and a bundle of hopes. If we continue to try to make our life blissful by trying to make those bad moments disappear from our life then the endeavors we will put in this never ending process will surely erase the happiness and peace of mind we are enjoying now.

We accept or not it is an eternal law of nature, good things can't exist in our life for ever on the other side bad and bitter things can't exist in our life for ever too. So insted of regretting, cursing ourself for the bitter things which already happened and are happening right now we can accept them because the more we will try to make our life simple by rejecting them the more our life will become complicated, we must balance our imperfectly perfect life by accepting both the sweet and bitter things.

Our life is not a fairytale where only giggles, happiness, peace , happy ending prevails our life is just like a Tragi-Comedy where both the tragedy and comedy exists. Our life is just like the weather, as there are some gloomy, dark, stormy day presents just like this there are some sunny, shiny, bright, cheerful days too.

There are exactly 365 days in a year so obviously not each day can't be the same otherwise your life will become monotonous and humdrum. I can guess that no one want this kind of life where only monotony, listlessness, despondency prevails. So don't fear to accept the bitter days and situations because these are the things which can make you strong, brave, powerful and can give you patiance, endurance which are the main keys with which you can open a world full of charms, happiness, successes.

At some point in your life, you must learn to accept the bad and bitter things along with good and sweet things so it is better to learn necessary things as early as possible before getting too late. Keep chasing your dreams, keep building yourself up with bricks made of both bitter and sweet things by accepting everything which are coming in your life even the undesirable things. Try to bloom like a flower in every situation and place even in those places and situations everyone thought you couldn't by accepting both bitter and sweet.

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05.08.22

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