Hey, Speak Up!

Have you met someone who is a passive-aggressive person? People who always deny their feelings, like in words, deny it, but in their actions, you will feel the opposite of their words. Like, what the? I ask you if you're okay or if there's anything wrong, but you say it's ok; everything is fine, but after that, he will give you a silent treatment or sarcastic remarks. How funny that you can never predict his next action; you did even know that he did every negative behavior that you know behind your back. And what's really funny is that it's your fault that you did not know what the reason for his action was. Like, are you okay?

I meet many people like this, and sometimes I'm tired of this drama. I never ever reach out to you if you will be like this. I never beg someone who is losing a chance to communicate with and understand them. I don't care if they get angry; duh, they even don't have the right to get angry at me when they didn't even tell me directly what the problem was. I'm just human too; I don't have the superpower to know everything. If I did wrong, oh girl, tell me, tell me what part of my actions I offend you or I hurt you. I already did my part; I ask you; all you need to do is tell me. And what did you expect that I would cry at your actions? Oh, its a big no. I'm just wasting my time communicating to someone who lacks the confidence to even engage in conversation. 

I knowledge that communication might be challenging, but it is not a justification. You need to be vocal; it's not just for you or for me but for both sides. We need to be vocal to express our feelings, so people will understand you too. There is nothing wrong with being vocal. How could you ask for understanding but refuse to communicate? When you consistently cause confusion, how can you expect to be understood?