Living with a negative person is a difficult task

Living with a negative person is a difficult task .

In such a case, if our hard work and self-confidence are weak, then we too should immediately become empty and then become negative.

Here are some things to keep in mind.

1. Focus on the other person or his / her activities and focus on yourself.

2. Not focusing on the desire or quest to change others

3. Recognizing the other as it is is based on that

4. Avoid debates

5. Validate rather than obey and listen with enthusiasm as long as there is breath.

6. When you feel weak or have negative emotions, apologize and get up

"It simply came to our notice then

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6.

#Assertiveness

Remember the principles of

7. pray

Negative people themselves are in dire straits. Their real war is going on with them. Their words are not personal.

If you feel more hurt than negative, then it is important to focus on yourself instead, analyzing your emotions. Apologize for that, get up and pay attention to yourself.

Negative people usually talk augmentatively. Doubts about intentions and talk about the state of our inner world as if they are sitting inside us. God willing, they all know.

It is important to remember that

"If anyone has any idea about us after Allah, it is us. The talk of a third or fourth servant is only his personal opinion or analysis, not the truth at all."

So instead of being furious, be curious.

Keep cool And clearly say

"Well, that's what you think ... you think so ..."

Explain if the attacks are repulsive

"The story inside me or someone else, the state of intention ... is known only to Allah. And I know something myself ... Your opinion is not correct."

This will be powerful and effective when you are crystal clear due to self care and self awareness.

If you are not clear yourself or have doubts then understand that you will continue to be a soft target for negative people ...!