Gossip Spread Like A Wildfire Because.....

Gossip is a common reason why misunderstandings or trouble happens because some people does not read the whole context properly, that's why they are lacking reading comprehension or hearing a statement without understanding the whole point. This is common mistake for some because they are just reading one sentence and based their comments or understanding on a certain word or only remember certain portion of what they heard and they will pass the message, adding their assumptions or perceptions towards the issue.

I've encountered so many instances like this and mostly gossip was build up due to this lack of reading comprehension or the lack to comprehend things what they've heard or what they've read. That is why I despise people who talks a lot about other people, it is said smart people discuss ideas and average people talks about other people.

What are the reasons why a certain person reacts aggressively on a certain statement without proper basis that can cause misunderstanding?

Narrow minded way of thinking

Some people have this narrow minded ways of thinking, like they only believe what is within their knowledge and does not want to accept or understand certain things openly. This can cause troubles as they lack to comprehend things in an open manner and reacts aggressively.

Have built in toxic attitudes

Some people have this built in toxic attitudes like they will try to force other people to believe what they believe. They will think highly of themselves that they are always right, and does not accept constructive criticism. Dealing with a toxic people is a waste of time because they will never listen but instead contradict all the ways that one had explain and pointed clearly.

Does not communicate well with direct opponent but goes to other people and the other people will add and less the details

Some people have this attitude of delivering the message to other people instead of dealing the issue to the person involved. Passing message to other will be added or lessened when that other people deliver the message. The truth has been twisted when the message has reached to the perso who is involved. They cannot tell the person frankly that they have to go to the other people, while some do this to gain sympathy of other people, to have allies that will side them in the situation.

Fake people likes to backstab

It's always like that, fake people will talk behind the back rather than infront of the person. They will never tell a person directly because they don't care at all, they likes to talk behind due to their coward attitude. They can only speak well behind the back but got terrified when the person involved speaks up, this is because usually backstabber lack proper basis and only likes to messed up things.

People who speak ill with other people are backstabber while there are people who speak behind the back of a certain person that only speaks the truth, it's not backstabbing it happens because a certain person does not accept constructive criticism causing them to discuss their points of view regarding the issue.

End Note:

This article was inspired from real life events, our neighbors had fight over things and both parties have the attitude written above. I was annoyed with this kind of things especially gossip, it can cause troubles a lot. The funny thing is that the misunderstanding started from a Facebook post, then the gossip spread like a wildfire without even comprehending what is the whole thought and only based on a word.

Like how come some people based their understanding on a certain word without understanding the whole thought? It's because they are narrow minded, toxic, fake and does not want to communicate well.

Thank you for reading..