The things for spouses do for Unrealistic Expectations

1.Be sure you are meeting whatever expectations are realistic rather than giving up altogether.

2.If you performed a 'bait and switch' and act in a completely different manner than you did while dating, admit this to your spouse and ask forgiveness.

3.Develop a deeper understanding of the wound within your spouse that is driving his or her unrealistic expectation of you

4.Determine to grow in areas where you can

5.Be sure you are communicating about your spouse's disappointment and your continued desire to meet realistic needs.

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