Marriages are not automatically successful. People who achieve success in marriage must work for it as in any other endeavor. A person will not be skilled carpenter unless he is trained. Neither will a young person be skilled builder of a home without training. Part of this training comes from the example of parents, but if their marriage is less than successful then the preparation will be weak or negative.
Since young people have not had experience in making marital adjustments and in solving conflicts, they often develop fantasies regarding marriage. Their fantasies leave them disillusioned when their marriages do not progress smoothly. When conflicts intensify, the only alternative they know is separation and divorce.
In preparation for marriage, young people should have a correct view of God's plan and purpose for the home.
This is the reason why preparation for marriage has to take it seriously.
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