Outercourse Is The New Intercourse And How To Make It A Part Of Your Sexual Activity

Your Know-It-All Guide to Outercourse

You’ve heard about safe sex. (Hope you’re practising safe sex as well). And it’s safe to say you know about intercourse; but have you practised or heard about outercourse?

You may have indulged in outercourse when you were young and frisky. (Young, as in high school young). You might have not been aware of it then. Remember the full-on make-out session, followed by dry humping that would last for hours and hours, and you never got bored of it?

And if you’re anything like me, you may miss that feeling of raw horniness, and the sexual build-up you likely underwent during your teen years from kissing and dry humping. And, for those of you who haven’t experienced this, let me introduce you to something you’ve been missing out on- outercourse!

Now, let’s dive into this. Outercourse will surely become your new way of expressing yourself sensually and sexually, too.

Your Know-It-All Guide to Outercourse

What is Outercourse?

Outercourse is the opposite of intercourse. It’s all about experiencing a world of sexual pleasure that doesn’t include any penetration. That said, it is purely subjective, as its meaning will differ from person to person. For some people, it includes activities that do not involve the genitals at all, while for others it only excludes penetration that involves anal sex, fingers, and other sexual objects.

This means that everything and anything that you do, sexually, with another person, which isn’t penetrative, is considered outercourse. To make things easier —

Outercourse involves massages, a few BDSM acts, lots of kissing and touching, dry humping, frotting, and using sex toys externally.

Although most people consider outercourse vanilla, it is anything but that. When you remove penetration from the equation, everything you indulge in will bring more pleasure, arousal, and sexual climax.

Foreplay Vs. Outercourse: What’s the difference?

Yes, there’s little to no difference between the two, and they’re more or less synonymous. But, the word foreplay is loosely used to imply that you’re caressing or fondling your partner as a prelude to the main event. Some people have the greatest sex of their lives without any intercourse. This means penetration is just a part of the sexual activity, and it can’t be defined as sex, in general.

When you partake in outercourse as a sexual act, it begins and ends as outercourse, with no further consummation needed.

Perks of outercourse

Outercourse has a wide range of benefits. You get to be creative in how you turn each other on and achieve orgasm. You can indulge in BDSM sessions, as most of the acts under that category don’t involve any penetration. Bring in all the whips, handcuffs, etc.

There may be plenty of reasons why you just want to refrain from penetrative sex. Maybe it’s because you can’t orgasm through penetration, you get uncomfortable with period sex, etc. Enter: Outercourse.

You can toss the birth pills and other contraceptives out the window.

You suffer from problems like sexual trauma, vaginismus, and other sexual conditions that lead to painful sex.

Other than these benefits, outercourse helps build a strong bond between partners and enables them to add the much-needed variety to their sexual repertoire. Outercourse is equal to intercourse (if not greater than it) when it comes to satisfying sexual needs.

How to make outercourse a part of your sexual activity?

Just start … as simple as that. But before cruising through everything that foreplay entails, in outercourse, it’s best to take things slow, which means hold your horses with genital stimulation. Give massages, convey your fantasies, and try stimulating one another in ways to achieve orgasm without penetration.

Also, try edging. It’s when you get each other to orgasm, but pause, just before orgasm happens. Repeat it several times, at least thrice, if you want to experience mind-bending sessions of high-intensity orgasms.