Should I Divorce Him? — @HapyUserOfBargerWallet on read.cash

@HapyUserOfBargerWallet 23 April 2020 edited

Should I Divorce Him?

Hello, Matters Of The Heart ❤️, please keep me anonymous, but share my story with the community. I've been married for the past fifteen years; my youngest child is eight and first is thirteen. My husband was nice to me because we dated two years before marriage but he changed after our first child. As at then he didn't hit me, he was only a nagging husband. I didn't bother much because I felt it's a normal thing in men to nag. Immediately after my last child, the marriage became hell, he became abusive; hitting and calling me names all the time especially before the kids. I don't bother about his cheating life because I still love him. I know it's crazy but for the kids I do. He has been out of work for almost five years but I don't care too because of love. I'm deeply in pains as tears keep rolling down my eyes while telling this story. My kids don't want us divorced. He thinks I'm divorcing him because he is not paying the bills. My parents want me out of the marriage. Please I need your advice. What should I do? Hmmmm... That's a sad one. I actually feel her pain. But we must not be bias in our judgement. Yes, he is wrong but it could be psychological and it has therapy.

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10 comments

@HapyUserOfBargerWallet 23 April 2020

Hmmmm... That's a sad one. I actually feel her pain. But we must not be bias in our judgement. Yes he is wrong but it could be psychological and it has therapy.
- @Cain 23 April 2020
  
  I’m confused is this your situation or someone else’s?
  - @HapyUserOfBargerWallet 23 April 2020
    
    Not mine. I do a lot of counciling so people meet me or either write to me to publish for advice.
    - @Cain 23 April 2020
      
      I see. I would suggest you put your response in the post as well so people understand you're not asking for advice.
      - @HapyUserOfBargerWallet 23 April 2020
        
        Okay Cain, thanks alot.
      - @Cain 24 April 2020
        
        And I didn't mean that negatively in any way. I think it would be cool to have people on read.cash ask you for advice and read what you say.
      - @HapyUserOfBargerWallet 24 April 2020
        
        🤗🤗 thanks alot I'm grateful for that. I will honestly be glad to give advice. I have been doing counciling back in the university. I just want to take it to another level right now through blogging.
@HapyUserOfBargerWallet 24 April 2020

Thanks for reading. I am very passionate about seeing people happy. Don't stop checking on me 😘😊🥰😍 feel free to write me on anything ec350129@gmail.com
@Nawaja_Hassan 6 June 2020

Sad to hear your story..Hope everything gets better between you two...wish you a good luck..
- @HapyUserOfBargerWallet 6 June 2020
  
  Thanks 😊 dear friend.