@Hanzell
There is this man i love..
As the title suggests, i love someone. it hasn't been that long since we've met, it's only been a year and a half? I've liked him since we've met and it only grew more and more over time. what i thought had been a simple wish to cheer him up from depression had turned into an undeniable urge to protect him and make him happy. it still holds true after so many rejections, after so many times that he avoids the topic. I don't think it should be called an obsession, fixation or attachment because it was a choice. Even if one day, he decides to stop seeing me and eventually truly date someone he finds interest in, i still hope him the best of happiness and all the care he could receive from the one who would eventually have his heart.
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If you can willingly respect and care for him, whether or not he can answer to your feelings, then there's no problem. As long it doesn't prevent you from connecting with other people, of course.
This was an old writing though. He answered to them eventually. Now it's almost been 2 years since 😂
Holy snap, SCORE.
Wow I found it, every one hate to be judged in certain salient matter i never can tell what drives him into this much depression I believe he has spoken already and let the cat out of the bag.
This was from 2 years ago. As of date, I'm now dating that very man and as for his depression, it's mostly subsided now. Same as with mine
So I give up, and am happy that the depression issues has been subside
Surprisingly, he started looking for my presence after that last rejection and all. Man is confusing, really
It take two to tango my people would say. You know there are thing that actually makes man decision
Hmm.. what are your thoughts about men realizing affection a bit too late, and women, a bit too early?
Well am a man and this has really affected some of my decision during relationship, at times the ability to gage expression for a man , man is not always in a rush of thing in order to confirm alot of thing which are Paramount, you know a man just have to be sure and take significant steps . As for ladies I believe they actually know what they want at once and don't delay in wasting time to claim it . My opinion though
So you'd say it mostly a matter of being in a rush? I see your point since women lose their usual flexibility and child bearing abilities faster unlike in men who would still produce sperm and would still get an erection even when they vet old
Exactly my point
Well may be and I do believe that we are just different in our dynamic way.
I'm not sure about the dynamics part though
Then what really can you tell .