Most people think that long-term relationships have the hardest breakups. To have your pain validated, you must have pictures and memories to show for devotion. To be allowed to grieve, you need to have loved that person and spent countless hours of your life with them. Anybody who has gone through a short-term breakup will have to disagree. Because it is about your future and all the love you were ready to give. For some of you, it’s about the mornings you wake up to the empty spot beside you in bed; it’s about what could have been. It is about the feeling of butterflies in your stomach for the first time. You cry, not because of the boy, but because you deserve the chance to have those feelings stay. For others, it is about the unfairness around how such a loving heart always gets stepped on and broken. Regardless of how many times you cradle your heart, love always finds a way to seep through, only to tease you and leave you lonely when you finally thought you had the one.
Sweet girl, you are allowed to cry, and your feelings are more than validated. Because it is not about him, it’s about you. And let me tell you, you more than anyone deserve for your dreams to reach fruition.
So please, do not isolate your emotions and rid them of coming to the surface. Please know that it is okay to feel. Although right now you feel lost and heavy-hearted, there will come a day that love will creep its way into your life again.
All I ask is you embrace it with every breath you take, because one day, you will find love that lasts
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