Recently, I met someone who I have known years ago, the person is still at the same level.
One begin to wonder why is the fellow, still at the same placement, all these years. The reason is because they have refused to avoid certain things, which are:
1. Pride
2. Woman
3. Money
The above listed factors, are most; though, not limited to the reason why most individuals do not go up
in life, business and career. They have either engaged in either of the three factors, which are mutually exclusive. These individuals have intentionally lived their life on pride, women and money.
Pride comes before a fall. One among many factors that make an individual not to succeed in any endeavor is pride. Pride is a limiting factor, a killer of destiny. It incapacitates the individual, a proud person brags a lot. For instance "do you know who I am", you are nothing but a piece of trash. If you can humble your self people will be willing to assist or engage in whatever that concerns you.
If you are wrong in any matter, kindly apologize and bury the hatchet. It does not cost you anything to be humble.
Also, pride triggers revenge. Someone did something to you, because you want to show you have strength or you have the resources or the connection. You have vowed to revenge, pay the person back in his or her own coin. Allowing the matter rest or die does not hurt your pride.
Equally important, you see somebody doing something Properly. The person is been celebrated on what they are doing well. You want it to be you that is being praised. Please celebrate people doing well in any endeavor, that is their strength. Also someday people will celebrate you in your own area of strength. The way most individuals love women is something else.
In addition, woman is used figuratively in this article to mean "the opposite sex". Most people can not deny themselves the pleasure of the opposite sex for a day.
They want to be with someone at all times. Who may probably sleep over, all their resources is been spent on the opposite sex. For instance, I used to know someone, the moment it rains or the weather is cold he must look for someone to be with, the urge for sex becomes high. He must do something that night, he never sleeps alone.
One begin to wonder what is the problem. You need to be careful with these opposite sex. Most of them are there to manipulate your destiny and stop the flow of the blessing of the lord in your life, business or career. On the other hand, women are wonderful entities, phenomenal personalities.
Indeed, if you stick with one, they will help manage your resources and build you to be a better person. Most people do a lot of things because of money.
Furthermore, money is a medium of exchange. Money is good but it becomes a challenge the way individuals do things negatively because of it. Someone can go to the extent of defrauding you, killing and kidnapping because of money.
The negative appetite for money has made it become a cause for concern. If you make legit money, you will be happy and comfortable eating your hard earned money.
On the other hand, where you are given condition money, you find it difficult to give someone a dime of that money. Most people stay in the club all through the night because they are afraid to sleep so they don't pass on in their sleep.
They where given condition on how to spend the money. Probably one of the condition is not to sleep at night.
Consequently, the club becomes their place of abode, they frequent all the clubs in town, What is the joy of having so much money, you can't give to your fellow human being but you will be willing to buy them drinks.
In conclusion, If you can avoid these factors you will grow in any area of your endeavor, be it in life, business and career. If any of them is a problem to you, kindly comment.
