If you've sat on the Cochin in the living room, enjoying a chill juicy pineapple slice, and happen to take a glass of cold water after the treat. then, you would realize that every sweet thing has a bitter side.
We have failed to understand that humanity is packed up with frails.
No one is perfect. And your idea of perfection, may off course be very different from mine.
You might like your wife praying for 13hours and fasting(since you'r looking for Jesus), I might simply want her to love the lord dearly, and simply love me(I can do the plenty hours of intercession).
You may like her wearing coverall, but I prefer her dressing modest, but very fashionable.
We look so much for perfection in others. you hear statement like "She's local, She's mean, She's materialistic, She's can't cook well, He's not caring, He's rachet, He's too dull, He's never serious, He's ugly, I mean he can't cook."
"She doesn't have curves, she's lanny, she's too thin, she's disrespectful, He's bossy, He's proud, He's not my type."
I know people have weaknesses, but have you looked at yourself?
Are you the best version you? Can you ever be perfect in the eyes of everyone?
Can you be Sanguine and to another melancholic, can you be Godly and at the same time"the party type" an engineer, a sailor and a doctor?
The best you can be is an improve version of you. Not another person's dream man, woman or friend. Even dream boyfriend and Girlfriend(smiles).
We all have bittersweet sides. concentrate on the good and check carefully if you can tolerate the excesses. Knowing that you also have excesses.
Let everyone work on their selves, learn to make excuse for others, and avoid assumption.
