In Defense of Feminism: A Handy-Dandy List of Links for Cishet Men

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Let me get this out of the way first: I am not a feminist. I believe in Egalitarianism an anarcho-feminist with intersectional leanings. (See footnote 1.) I disagree with some of Feminism's ideology (Lesbian and Radical, for personal/self-interest reasons) and there are vast gaps in my knowledge. I am a single, white, cis-het male and a self-aware arsehole. (id est I have faults, privileges and blind spots I'm endeavoring to overcome.)

Be that as it may, I see so much — so much — BS posted about feminism by people who're truly clueless about it. For example:

  1. Feminism is for man-haters. [As if this is somehow a personal attack and there are no such things as subgroups of thought. "Radical Feminists" are not "true" feminists, but that's a subject for another post.]

  2. If a woman doesn't let you violate her body/boundaries/consent/rights and throws a fit, she's a "feminazi" because blah blah blah entitlement and invading her intimate/private space(s) like she's Poland (which doesn't even make syntactical, let alone semantic, sense)

  3. Feminism seeks to treat everyone the way women want to be treated. (See Footnote 2.)

Every time I've seen these "arguments" put forth, I wished I had a single article to which I could refer that has a list of links to appropriate literature, but I did not. So this is that article. (I have republished it in multiple places on the Web, including my patreon and Publish0x.) Please feel free to suggest additional/alternate links. (I am aware that some may not be reliable/credible.) I'm currently going through it, vetting the content and doing my best to onboard it with an open mind free from judgement and criticism.

"Contrary to popular opinion, feminism is not concerned with women hating men or trying to “be like men”. What feminism is interested in is ending sexism, sexist exploitation, and oppression. [...] The sexism that is to be ended is [not] only female sexism. Gender roles are sexist against both sexes, male and female."
— Nadia Persaud; A Discussion On Patriarchy, Oppression And Feminism (2016)

"I want to show people the behind-the-scenes of women’s lives. I want you to look in the face of the women who you might objectify, discourage, discriminate, or take advantage of. I can’t be more appreciative of the experiences that women tell me every day. I don’t think they do it because they want to piss us off or make us feel guilty. I think they do it because they want to have better relationships with us."
— Anthony Recenello (2020); Why Male Participation Is Needed in Order to Rectify Harassment Against Women; Natascha Wittmann; The Good Men Project

The first two links are particularly good for dealing with horse shit, IMO.

Patriarchy Hurts Men Too


Supplemental

Here are some useful links not strictly to do with feminism, but useful none the less.

Even More Links

Since this article was very long (and difficult to edit without a dedicated markdown editor) when first I wrote it, subsequent suggestions on the site where it first appeared have been tacked on here. My apologies for any duplication that occurs.

Shrödinger's Rapist Revisited

More Books

  • Feminism for Everyone — Bell Hooks

  • We Should All be Feminists — Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

"To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived; this is to have succeeded."
— Ralph Waldo Emerson, philosopher


1. This is not because I believe "women have all the power and we men need our rights back" (I don't), but because I'd like to live in a world where equality is not a race/gender/identity issue. (I know it's far from it.) Also, "liberal" screams "indecisive, fence-sitting, spineless, limp-wristed" to me.

2. This one is particularly insidious, because it almost mirrors the correct definition, but it poisons the sugar with "the way women want to be treated" by insinuating it's somehow not the same way men want to be treated and therefore violates them.


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