Why do we need to feel sadness and heartaches?

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Have you ever ask this question to yourself?

This is one of the questions that people often asked. We all know that sadness and heartaches are feelings that no one can avoid and easily get from many reasons like break-ups and loss of loved ones or pets.

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Having a feeling of sadness and heartaches are totally not good. Many people or maybe all of us don't want to feel them because we can't get anything good, instead we get negativity that can ruin our day or even our entire life. These also give us the idea of being unlucky and worthless that may lead to depression, anxiety and even killing oneself or committing suicide. That is why entertaining these feelings for a long period of time is not okay. Besides, you are sacrificing many things like having happy moments with your loved ones or friends.

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But why do we need to feel them?

In my own point of view, we need to feel sadness and heartaches to appreciate happiness. Without them, we might forget to appreciate how good to be happy and how precious happiness is in our daily lives.

It is the same on this platform. We feel sadness and heartaches when our points don't increase rapidly but when it moves up quickly we are very happy and we cherish that moment. Some even make an article about it to express how happy they are.

I remembered a song lyrics says, "there is a rainbow after the rain" which means in every sadness and heartaches, there's happiness awaits. You just only need to have lots of patience and always be positive.

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I hope you learn in this article. Don't forget to share your thought in the comment box below. 😊😊😊

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Agree. Not all the time we feel happy. In this world there's always ups and downs. There's always happy and sad, there's always love and heartache. And you're right, we need to feel sadness and heartache to appreciate happiness, and to learn how to let go of the pain as well so we can move on and face another phase of our life.

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You are right. Without sadness and heartaches , maybe there's no such thing called happiness too.

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As what science said, in every positive action, there's always a negative chemical reaction.. haha.. there's always what we call "opposite" in this world. That is to give balance to this world.

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haha. Totally agree ako dyan.haha

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I think it's because so you can value happiness when it comes, that's why we feel pains and sadness

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Definitely @Ericmannie. :)

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Yep! Sadness and heartache can cause dipression and other bad things. We should avoid that, although it's hard to forget a bad day in your life if something unexpected happened to you! Lossing your loved one is the worst feeling you can have, I think.

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I agree with you. It may be hard to forget but we shouldn't stay to that feeling for a long time for it may because depression or any mental health problem that's why it is important to know how to cope with those feeling to avoid mental health problem.

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Yah sure, we should avoid that feeling. Nice article.

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Thank you for appreciating it. It's been a while since I published an article like this.

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Sure! What's the problem?

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Nothing. I just can't think nice topic for my articleπŸ˜…

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πŸ˜„ all those days?

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yeah. haha. There were times when my mind confused what topic should I write that' s why these past few days I just joined giveaway contests and photo articles.haha

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Haha. Am waiting for your beautiful articles! I hope you already have another to post.

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yeah. I already have. haha. Don't pressure me. Okay ? haha

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Haha. I don't pressure you, but I boost you!

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really? I don't think so.haha

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Yep really. Can you suggest any simple contest?

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uhm, Why not giving a topic then, participants will make an article or poem about it? haha. Right now, I prefer to join writing contest than any other contest because these platform made for that and I think arranging that kind of contest is nice to help everyone improve their writing skill and creativity. What do you think? and it should be submitted in your community :)

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Wow! That's good. Can you help me to announce it and find the winner?

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Sure. Just make an article about it and I'll just short post about it to inform other and help you and just add one more critic :)

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Any suggestion?

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No. I don't have any. haha. I know you have friends here so, I'll leave that to you. :)

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Good. So if you will help to find the winner, will you participate?

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What do you think? haha. I won't coz' I might win. just kidding. haha and I think that's not fair though I'd love to. Just want to challenge myself but yeah it's okay. I'll help you

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Haha! I really wish to see you participating in this contest (I want to challenge you and the other members in our community) please, don't help me just participate πŸ˜…

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Sure. Why not. haha

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In my own point of view, we need to feel sadness and heartaches to appreciate happiness. Without them, we might forget to appreciate how good to be happy and how precious happiness is in our daily lives.

I agree with your point of view. We can't feel genuine happiness if we don't know what is the feeling of grief. Imagine if there's no such thing as sadness. What if we are all happy? Can we able distinguished if that's a joyous emotion without knowing the feeling of the opposite?

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definitely, that's why sadness and heartaches are still necessary for us to know what happiness really means,

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You have said "You just need to be very patient and always be positive." Be constant too, keep writing and commenting on the work of others, answer the comments of your articles, continue as you came, the points will come πŸ‘πŸΌ

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oh, that's nice @aleja for reminding and adding your thought. I appreciate it very much :)

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You are welcome dear @Gracee πŸ€—

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