Love comes in many aspects. It could be love for an animal, love for the plants, love for work, love for family and friends, and the most common yet so hard is SELF LOVE.

In order to give love to others, you should learn how to love yourself first. Make yourself a priority and love all your flaws. It may not be that easy but if you try to give more to yourself, then you can feel the love glowing in you. Making yourself do the things you love could also be a sign of self love. Buying things you always wanted to have is also a self love. Respecting yourself and following your heart's desire is also a form of self love.

Sharing could also be one aspect to prove you love someone. Giving them not just material things will be valued and remembered by them. Just like respecting the olders, it just proves that you are valuing your self worth because you know how to respect others. Another is your kindness, it gives a very big impact to others when you are kind to them. It makes them feel special and it seems that they're important to you. Furthermore, spending time with the people you love is most valued by others. Just a simple meal or meet along with family could embrace love by each other.

How about Long Distance Relationship?

In most cases, long distance relationship doesn't work well. Maybe it is because the presence of your loved one is miles away from you. There were instances that your partner might find another because you lack the things you need to do. This includes:

• Touching

• Kissing

• Hugging

• Cuddling

• Going out together

• Sleeping together

• Cook food for him/her

These are a few things that most couple usually do and when you were in a long distance relationship with your partner, you failed to do those interesting things together. With that issue, there is big possibility that your partner will look for another that is more closer to him/her. It usually happens nowadays! One accurate example of that is when a wife go for abroad to work for her family and her husband is left at home. The husband will be missing her wife so much but he cannot reach her because she's far away. As a man, he will definitely look for a relief to his feelings. Then, the husband will cheat to fulfill his longing for his wife. And so the scenario happens as well to the wife who misses her husband from a far away place. The only thing to prevent that to happen is that you should be loyal and faithful to your partner, never cheat and always put in mind that your wife is striving hard to help your little family arise from difficulties in life. The best thing to do is always keep the spark alive.

How about those battered wife?

Another issue is a wife that is battered by her husband. This has been the most causes of break-ups and broken family. If you cannot love your other half, then don't waste your life spending it with the person who will just treat you like nothing. In most cases, woman are always buttered by their man. Especially if that man has a trait of too much jealousy. When a man expresses too much jealousy, he probably has trust issues. He doesn't trust you in all the things you do that's why he became so jealous. But if a man has a hundred percent trust to his woman, he might be a little jealous but not too much to the extent that he would beat his wife. There are afew things that could trigger a man to beat his wife:

• Rejection

• Lack of attention

• Influence of others

• Fear of abandonment

• Lack of respect

• Influence of drugs and alcohol

These are the common causes of a man who idolized violence than love. A man can prevent those abusive acts by:

• Focusing himself to the family

• Prioritizing love than anger

• Giving full trust to your partner

• Find time to talk about small problems

• Give and return love

Being abused is not easy. It can mend your world turning up side down. That's why, choosing your partner in life is very important from the start. Always choose not just the better one but also the good and loving one. Love is like throwing rocks to others, they may feel it. But if that rock hits them differently, it might hurt them. So be careful in choosing the love you want to have!

Spend love, not hate and war! Love is what we all need. Give love, and be loved! ❤️