Weight your standard

Today, when our world is developing and prospering day-by-day, and being evolved into the most beautiful form of Homo-sapiens. Everyone is trying to make their life better and better in all respects like in terms of fame, wealth, and comfort.

But at the same time there are also our younger people who are also dealing with their level of problems. Some are being bullied, some gets cought into immoral activities and some are harassed from cyber world also, and in various other respects.

And in it also comes one more thing which is - some people deals with people who is like frenemy ( they act as your friends in your presence and act as your enemy/snake in your absence).

And I'm mentioning few acts which can make you realise that you are also trapped among those relationship with the people around.

• If you feel like you are left out from your friends like they do not share the group talks with you if you are not present at that time.

• If you experience that they are your friends because they share with you when you are with them but also they use you majority of the times for getting pay for the snacks or other things when you are with them.

• If they do not invite you at various social friends gatherings organised by the them and you keep on being treated like a friend who could be used. Like they made plans to went out and watch a movie together but they didn't told you...WHY? OF COURSE BECAUSE THEY DON'T WANT YOU WITH THEM.

• If they do not help you whenever you are in need of help in any respect like emotionally, financially, academically or in some other form. I repeat this is the worst case leave all your friends and move on.

Conclusion:- As a human being we all have some standards in our living and personality which shapes us and also there will be people around you who try to use you for their self-interest so I will say try to make distance from all those people. And make some standards on what basis you want to have people around you.