Experiences of Independent Living - Final part.
Hi, so here am with the second part of my previous Article "Experiences of Independent Living".
So after shift to my own rented flat at delhi i got ill and i am alone no one is there to take care of. But hopefully in 3 days i am fine but those 3 days are like hell cause i have not eaten much for last e days.
When i hot healthy again did my household chores, did all the arsngements of the flat. Thes best thing about my flat was the balcony of my bedroom was sun facing which i loved too much. After a week i back to normal life breakfast then ofice lunch office then forex trading snd finslly dinner and bed time. The very first day when i started trading i just made 115$ as the market was crashing in an hour, it was friday that day. Also it was the highest of my all time since when i started around a month ago i was so as evrything was going perfect happy, but i didn't knew that tough times is going to start very soon.
So on monday when the market open's i put some wrong trades and out of greet i forget to put stop loss. Boom my whole trading account of 615$ just blown in an hour. I was like fuck!!!😑😐😐. I was freezed for nearly an hour and i was going to lit 5th ciggerete when my phone just rang. For me that Amount is actually a lot at that time. Well what gone is gone and because i just shift my new flat all my saving were already gone snd what i have was some 615$ in trading account which wss blown an hour ago. i didn't slept thst night neither i did the dinner. Next day i woke uo and felt dizziness even after the heavy breskfast, in evening when i was bathing i got fainted too.
Finally after a week when i started feeling better and felt relaxed i found out that after i am left with only 3 week of ration. Hopefully my salary was arring in 10 days. I have some extra saving to which i wanted to deposit in trading account and start again. But before that decided to get a roommate to diving me all the expenses of rent and snd other thing into half incase the situation get more worse. As i have rented the 2 bhk flat so am already having an extra room and luckily i got a roommate in a week, he was one of my school friend. Similiarly i examined some more situations and prepared myself if thing get worse more.
So after 2 weeks when i started trading again with 150$ everthing was going better againg for 3 days i was earning profit on 4th day inahbe aproximately 180$ around in my account. As my thoughts were sorrounded by thst 615$ previous loss i got greedy again when i saw i am esrning profit and on 4th day i took some big trades and make profit of around 250$ and few more trade were opened at that which were in profit of around 130$. I was looking for some more profit while thinking if i get little more my previous loss wil get covered. But i was idiot, in overconfident i dont closed that 130$ profit snd neither put proftitabe stop loss. Market reverese and i lost thst 130$ + 250$ which i earned in profits + 180 which was in acount already.
And I blowed my account for the 2nd time.
After the second time losing in forex i stopped trading becoz things have gotten much worse i can't even explain. That wss really tough time. Because i have diveded already my rent and other expenses by having a flat mate and and also i have my primary source of income which helped me in those tought times.After that i didn't did forex trading in a month all my night mares have gone.
After that i have lived actually a peacefully, my college friends visited me next month everyone was so happy becsuse they loved my flat. They stayed for a week and we did a lot of parties drinks, movies. Well hinestly after 2 or 2.5 months after learning more about forex, i did trsding but never contiously i still trade ocaionally and am still lerning hope one day i will be a good trader.😋
There were various situations when thing gone bad, and there were some good times too when i was happy and peacefull living life to the best.
From all the Situations i have gone through i learnt from each and every scenario of living independent. I learnt cooking, also i have formed some heslthy habits of cleanliness. There were various life skills which i never knew but learnt them on own while living independently.Here i am quoting some pros living independently what i can think of till yet.
Pros.
Independence- You never need to ask for anyone's permission. There eere few nights when i came home at 2 or 3 after partying.
Life skills -When You are on your own maybe you make mistakes no one is perfect but you will learn each and every day.
Management skils.
Finances
Social life improves.
There were various other similar things too that can be experienced while Independent living, good or bad no matter because each one will taught something new.
I would here like to end my article with a famous saying of sir Ratan Tata. "I don't know if my tsking the right decision or not, i take decisions and then work on my decision to make it right".
I believe when you take your decisions you are never sure that it was 100% right decision, but we can make it right by wokring on it.